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binge topia. The dismissive attachment that happens is because like when you're anxiously

attached, it's because you can never predict if your parent is going to come back or not to connect

with you. When you're dismissive or avoiding or like a disorganized, it's just like, well, I've

fully accepted that they're just never going to be there for me when I need it. So now I don't even

cry. Now I don't even. And that's why like people say the cry it out method. It's like, oh well,

babies learn to suit themselves. And it's like, no, they just learn that you're like never going to come.

Yeah. So they just stop crying. Yeah. And then you become emotionally detached, which like

clearly some of the kids are like that. Like, Connor is like so pathetic too. He always calls him

pop. I know. He's like, well, we really need to support pop. And it's like, your father does not

give a shit about you and your mother somehow gives even less of a shit about you. It's like the

saddest thing. Yeah. And like, who knows who Connor, right? He says like, Connor's mom was crazy and

like, she was like, Logan only cares about his children because he wants them to be who he wants

them to be. And none of them have turned out the way he wants them to, which is such a common

thing where parents are like, I want my children to be representations of me. And then they turn out

fucked up. And you're like, well, you didn't do like what I wanted you to do. And it's like,

you weren't the parent that like, I needed you to be. But that experiment is really interesting

because like, babies will mimic like if the mom makes a sad face or like you start pretending to

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