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🗓️ 5 May 2025
⏱️ 39 minutes
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Ever walked out of a situation and thought, “That didn’t feel right”?
In this raw, unscripted episode, Jerrad Lopes shares a deeply vulnerable moment — a story that didn’t involve sin in the traditional sense, but came dangerously close. From a return line at Home Depot to the emotional weight of a product endorsement, Jerrad invites listeners into the middle circle: the subtle behaviors that don’t look like sin, but lead our hearts away from truth, integrity, and God.
🎧 In this episode:
What “middle circle behavior” means and how it can unravel your soul
The difference between numbing out vs. self-care
A powerful framework used in recovery communities to build emotional awareness
How small compromises can quietly erode godly character
Jerrad’s honest confession to his wife — and why radical honesty matters
Why Oreo binges, Zillow scrolling, or standing while eating may matter more than you think
The prayer for men who want transformation but feel stuck
Whether you’re a husband, a father, or a man seeking healing, this episode offers a language for the soul and a challenge to step out of isolation.
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0:00.0 | I had a moment this week where I didn't really fall into sin, but the path that I was on felt |
0:06.0 | like the same paths I've taken before where I've fallen into sin. |
0:10.1 | If I could just say it that way, this is hard for me. |
0:14.2 | I can feel my chest kind of tightening up here as I'm trying to tell you this story, |
0:18.6 | because it feels kind of vulnerable |
0:21.1 | and I don't like my behavior here. |
0:24.0 | If you're watching on YouTube or Spotify, I apologize in advance for looking like I just got beat up by a baseball bat from a homeless man. |
0:48.9 | That doesn't even make sense. |
0:50.3 | But I just look like a wreck. |
0:51.8 | I look tired. |
0:52.5 | Man, I'm just looking at myself. |
0:53.5 | I'm tired looking. |
0:54.7 | My hat has been chewed by my dog. |
0:58.0 | My shirt is completely stained and dirty. |
1:02.2 | Layla and I got in a little tiff last night, little disagreement, a little... |
1:10.0 | You know, marriage is hard. |
1:11.3 | Anytime I hear a couple say they're not fighting or they don't fight or they're not, |
1:17.3 | you know, I guess, you know, fighting can be, if you're constantly fighting, that can be |
1:21.2 | unhealthy and, you know, you've got to work through figuring out the core issues there. |
1:25.7 | But if you're not, if you're not, I don't know, |
1:29.6 | battling it out, that's, that's too intense. If you're not, if you're not having some |
1:34.9 | disagreements, I don't know, you may be avoiding some stuff. I don't even know if what I'm |
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