The Stories That Shape Us: Why Your Narrative Defines Your Future | EP 672

Passion Struck with John R. Miles

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🗓️ 3 October 2025

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary

What is the story you’re telling yourself right now?

It may not feel like it, but every single one of us is living inside a story. Psychologists call it a self-narrative — the ongoing script that explains who we are, how we got here, and where we’re headed next. These stories shape what we notice, what we ignore, and what we believe is possible.

If your inner story says, “I’m not enough,” then every critique, silence, or setback feels like proof of inadequacy. But if your story says, “I am resilient, I am growing,” those same experiences become evidence of strength. The circumstances don’t change. The story does.

In this final episode of my Decoding Humanity series, we’re looking at the power of story: why it matters, how it’s formed, and how you can begin to rewrite it using the S.T.O.R.Y. framework.

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0:00.0	Your first great love story is free when you sign up for a free 30-day trial at audible.co.
0:05.5	U.K. slash Wondery. That's audible.com.uk slash Wondery.
0:11.3	Coming up next on Passionstruck, what story are you telling yourself right now? And is it
0:18.1	helping you or holding you back? We all live inside an ongoing narrative,
0:23.3	a personal myth that explains who we are, what we value, and how we interpret every moment.
0:30.2	But here's the thing. Those stories aren't neutral. Some liberate us. Some limit us. And today,
0:37.1	we're going to decode the hidden power of the
0:39.6	stories that shape our lives and how to reclaim authorship of your own. Welcome to Passionstruck.
0:46.7	I'm your host, John Miles. This is the show where we explore the art of human flourishing
0:51.9	and what it truly means to live like it matters.
0:55.3	Each week, I sit down with change makers, creators, scientists, and everyday heroes to decode the
1:00.9	human experience and uncover the tools that help us lead with meaning, heal what hurts,
1:06.2	and pursue the fullest expression of who we're capable of becoming.
1:10.3	Whether you're designing your future,
1:11.8	developing as a leader, or seeking deeper alignment in your life, this show is your invitation
1:17.1	to grow with purpose and act with intention. Because the secret to a life of deep purpose,
1:22.7	connection, and impact is choosing to live like you matter.
1:34.0	Thank you. impact is choosing to live like you matter. Hey friends, episode 672 of Passion Struck is here, and this is the closing chapter of our
1:40.9	Decoding Humanity series.
1:42.8	To all of you who come back, week after week,
1:45.5	thank you. Your support has helped build not just a podcast, but a mattering revolution.
1:51.4	And if this show has helped you live more intentionally or lead more authentically,
	...

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