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The Stories Behind Our First and Last Words

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4.2 • 726 Ratings

🗓️ 24 February 2025

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

Linguist Michael Erard says that a child’s first words and a dying person’s last words exist on a Möbius-strip of beginnings and endings where “parallels emerge and then fade while asymmetries persist.” In his new book, “Bye Bye I Love You: The Story of Our First and Last Words,” Erard compiles stories from medical archives and ancient texts as well as first-hand accounts by doctors and doulas. He joins us to talk about the power these words have on us. And we hear from you: Do you have a story about a loved one’s first or last words? Guests: Michael Erard, author, linguist Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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A child's first words, a person's last words.

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They mark a beginning and an end, and as a culture, we mark both.

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And just as often, we miss them, failing to be there when either are uttered.

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Linguist Michael Arrard has compiled stories about these words in his new book,

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Bye Bye, I Love You, the story of our first and last words.

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He examines why these particular words mean so much to us, and we hear from you.

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What's a story about first and last words that you want to share?

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That's all coming up next after this news.

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Welcome to Forum.

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