Finding love takes time.

So when we finally connect with someone, we may have the tendency to hold on tight.

The longer we hang on, the more entrenched we become, and the harder it gets to change course, even though

numerous signs may be telling us, we're going the wrong way. The stay-or-go dilemma that's

coming up on Dating While Gray, the grown-ups guide to love, sex, and relationships. I'm Laura Stasi.

I'm Laura Stasi.

I recently received a voicemail reminding me that when it comes to love, it's not necessarily find one and then done.

Hi, Laura.

I became a widow at 61 in June of 2020 when my husband of 39 years passed away

from COVID-19. I moved to a different city to be closer to my daughter and start a new life. I made new

friends in the 55 plus community that I live in, but something was missing from my life. So I started online dating.

I had a few dates and even one short-term relationship. It ended abruptly, no reason other than

not compatible. Finally, I met someone special. Of course, there is a catch. He lives almost 300 miles

away, plus he is 10 years older.

Things didn't work out. We ended our 10-month relationship two months ago.

I have since moved down and found a new love interest, closer to home, and we are the same age.

Thank you for all your research, interviews, and enthusiasm for us great daters.

It is so nice to know, I am not alone when it comes

to believing passion is still there for those of us who are searching for it.

Passion is still there for those searching for it. I love that line, though I confess,

sometimes my faith has wavered. I also understand how

difficult it can be to gain the confidence to go searching for it, especially when you're in an

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