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Hey everyone. Welcome to The Curious Girl Diaries podcast.

I'm Leila London, aka The Curious Girl.

Now just to let you know, this podcast is not suitable for work. It's also not suitable for anybody under 18.

But the rest of you consenting adults, let's get ready to talk about my sex life, sex in general, and everything in between, an explicit, raunchy, fun detail.

All right, here we go.

I won't say these are my prouder moments in life.

Again, you learn from this stuff. You experience it. You're like, oh fuck, that was just not the best way to handle that. So I don't want to do that again. When you start labeling something like, well, that's kink, you know, that you've got vanilla, right? Which we all understand that term like, oh, you know, you have vanilla sex. Like, okay, you're the straight up good people. You're having vanilla sex.

Then there's this group over here. These are kinksters. These are kinky people that have to live in

the shadows and be in shame. Yeah, they're like demonizing them or something.

But I, you know what looking back i just so

appreciate that that there was an openness an open door policy and that sex was not dirty or taboo

and i just never was left with that impression. Oh, what is going on here?

You know, like, what is this about?

This is just lack of, I want to even say manhood.

I don't know if that's the right way to term it,

but it feels like that.

It feels like you're dealing with boys and not men.

So welcome Dr. Dary and Parker.

We met when I was on your podcast, Dr. D's social network.

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