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Our American Stories

The Small Act of Courage That Led to 50 Years of Marriage

Our American Stories

iHeartPodcasts

Documentary, Society & Culture

4.6817 Ratings

🗓️ 10 September 2025

⏱️ 11 minutes

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Summary

On this episode of Our American Stories, Lori Coan was on her second date with a boy she wasn’t sure about when something happened that changed her mind—and her life. A group of troublemakers tripped a girl with polio, sending her sprawling in front of everyone. Most of the students laughed or looked away. Lori’s date didn’t. He jumped up, helped the girl to her feet, and gave her dignity back in a moment when it had been stolen. To Lori, that simple act of courage said more than words ever could. That boy would later become her husband, and together they built a marriage lasting more than fifty years. What began as a small act of kindness in a high school cafeteria grew into a lifelong partnership grounded in respect, compassion, and strength.

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0:00.0

This is an I-Heart podcast.

0:14.3

This is Lee Habib, and this is Our American Stories.

0:18.2

Up next, a story from Lori Cohen about how she met the love of her life.

0:23.9

Lori is a writing student of our frequent contributor, Leslie Layland Fields, and we thank her for

0:29.5

turning us on to this story. Take it away, Lori.

0:48.4

In 1972, the cafeteria of the high school was loud, always with an undercurrent of muffled conversations,

0:57.5

high-pitched squeals of newly pubescent girls, and the scraping of aluminum chair feet across the linoleum floor.

1:03.4

There lies in my brain the familiar sounds and smells of the catheteria.

1:12.9

Those pistachio-colored plastic lunch trays with their tidy compartments clattered as students smacked them forcefully against the large trash can to collect the remains of our pizza burgers paired oddly with corn and

1:19.3

orange jello salad. I was about to have my first public date with the senior of my dreams.

1:28.9

As a sophomore, my pulse raced and my stomach fluttered in anticipation of our time together.

1:36.2

Me was a senior.

1:39.2

Through mutual friends, we met on a blind date the previous weekend.

1:46.7

Not having much experience with upperclassmen, I did my due diligence by stalking him in the hallways before her date.

1:52.7

When I first met him coming out of a classroom, I thought to myself,

1:57.4

huh, not my type. I was used to choosing my dates by how much they resemble the 1970s rock stars I admired

2:06.5

with long hair and those who carried themselves with that bad boy swagger.

2:12.8

But after the date, I had to say there was just something about him.

2:21.0

I eagerly accepted his lunch date for the following week.

2:28.3

He was clean cut, perhaps shorter than me, wearing white Adidas sneakers with red stripes paired with

2:37.1

cuffed straight-legged navy pants and a button-down light blue shirt cuffed at his wrists.

2:44.7

He sported the ever-stylish Rods belt, smartly displaying the classic shotgun shell at the buckle. As I look down at my hip-hugger

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