The single most important parenting strategy | Becky Kennedy
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4.0 • 1.5K Ratings
🗓️ 3 September 2024
⏱️ 39 minutes
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Summary
Everyone loses their temper from time to time — but the stakes are dizzyingly high when the focus of your fury is your own child. This week we're revisiting a talk by clinical psychologist and renowned parenting whisperer Becky Kennedy. Not only does she have practical advice to help parents manage the guilt and shame of their not-so-great moments but she also models the types of conversations you can have to be a better parent. (Hint: this works in all other relationships too.) Bottom line? It's never too late to reconnect. After the talk, stick around for a conversation between Shoshana and author Emily Oster on how to use data in everyday parenting decisions.
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| 0:00.0 | Mercury was used back during the gold rush to extract gold, unknowingly releasing dangerous toxins. |
| 0:06.0 | Today, many artisanal miners still mine for gold using this method, unwitting |
| 0:11.0 | communities near and far. |
| 0:14.0 | Gold is valuable, but you cannot eat it. |
| 0:16.0 | You cannot breathe it and you cannot drink it. |
| 0:19.0 | Tedfellow Claudia Vega studies the effects and works with the people living and working in |
| 0:24.1 | the Peruvian rainforest to better understand them. |
| 0:27.4 | Some of the mercury goes into the river, it goes to the air, and it can be transported long |
| 0:32.2 | distance. |
| 0:32.7 | In another episode of Ted Fellow Fridays on TED Talks Daily, hear more about how Claudia |
| 0:37.4 | Vega was led to this work in the rainforest and more. Only on TED Talks Daily. |
| 0:46.5 | This episode is brought to you by Wish You Worked Here from NHS Grampean. |
| 0:56.1 | If you're an anesthetist, you already know the thrill of being in the theater, where every decision counts. |
| 1:02.2 | But that same intensity and stress doesn't have to follow you out of the operating room. |
| 1:07.4 | At Dr. Gray's Hospital in Elgin, anesthetists don't get lost in layers of process. They make |
| 1:13.5 | decisions at the table, where it matters. It's high stakes work when you want it to be. But minutes |
| 1:19.3 | later, you can be walking coastal trails, heading into the forest, or simply back home in time |
| 1:25.6 | for dinner. This isn't about trading ambition for lifestyle. It's about |
| 1:29.6 | finding both. Hands on, not hands tied. A chance to practice medicine the way you trained for |
| 1:36.0 | while shaping a job plan that fits your interests, whether that's teaching, research, or |
| 1:40.5 | innovation. So if you've ever wondered what it would feel like to make a life, not just a living, go to Wish You Worked Here. Scott and arrange a visit to see for yourself. Flights and accommodation covered, that's wish host, Dr. Shoshana Ungerleiter. |
| 2:08.6 | Imagine a world where every parenting hiccup could be turned into an opportunity for growth, |
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