I don't believe in people growing on you. Most of the men that we looked at and was like never. And then we was like, you know what? He's nice. I'm going ahead. Those ones that played in your face the most. And you were madder than anything because not only did they play in your face, but they played in your face looking like that. And here's the things that we don't talk about that are practical. It's very hard to navigate an argument with somebody that you already weren't attracted to.

You said, I've surrendered this portion of my life over the God.

What was it to learn to that?

I realized I was picking badly, serially.

You can either go the direction of something that's wrong with everybody, or you can say

there's something about my magnet that's only drawing these weird ones and so let me do

something to kind of like reset what does it look like to say god you can have all things love related

sex isn't a part of my dynamic has there been any weariness in your well-doing i mean yeah you have

moments of like i'm about to go outside because everybody's out there i think i'm in a good place with

god and i definitely don't want to fumble it for something that ain't meant to last my holy ghost is from brook So like, I'm about to go outside because everybody's out there. I think I'm in a good place with God.

And I definitely don't want to fumble it for something that ain't meant to last. My Holy Ghost is from Brooklyn. So he talked to me kind of crazy. I was complaining a little bit. The move had taken place. And he finally said to me, if I sent you a husband that had made sure all these things took place, you would be my man, my man, my man. but I did it for you

and you will not be like

my God, my God, my God.

Despite when my biological clock

may say it on a Tuesday, on a Thursday, You would be my man, my man, my man. But I did it for you, and you will not be like, my God, my God, my God.

Despite when my biological clock may say on a Tuesday, on a Thursday, I would have been a horrible parent in my 30s. Really? I would have been having kids for kids to love me, and not for me to love them. You found guys that literally go after business women, so they really don't want nothing serious. They want you to seriously help them build their business.

Guy friends will mess you up because they will tell you, I just want somebody to build with. Y'all ain't married none of these women and y'all describes. Stop trying to be these things and just be yourself. Do you have a list? I used to have a height requirement. I'm not tall. So taller than me is still on the list of requirements. I will go to dinner and play Uno at the table.

But that's also what I saw. I'm not tall. So taller than me is still on the list of requirements.

I will go to dinner and play Uno at the table.

But that's also what I saw in the relationships that I grew up seeing, like people actually enjoyed each other's company.

Have you ever been close to marriage?

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