The Shocking Story Behind the Diamond Engagement Ring
Our American Stories
iHeartPodcasts
4.6 • 817 Ratings
🗓️ 6 January 2023
⏱️ 10 minutes
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Summary
On this episode of Our American Stories, Tom Zoellner purchased a diamond engagement ring and proposed. His girlfriend said, "yes" and then, suddenly, walked out of his life making Tom the owner of a used engagement ring. Instead of hitting the self-help shelves of his local bookstore, he hit the road to discover the true worth of this shining gem and then wrote The Heartless Stone.
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| 0:00.0 | This is an I-Heart podcast. |
| 0:17.8 | This is our American stories, and our next story is about a gem. |
| 0:23.9 | It turns out diamonds haven't always been rare stones. |
| 0:29.1 | Since 1870, when huge diamond mines were discovered in South Africa, |
| 0:34.0 | soon after that discovery, the British financiers behind the South African mining effort realized the diamond market would be saturated if they didn't do something about it. |
| 0:44.3 | So in 1888, they set two audacious goals. |
| 0:48.3 | One, monopolized diamond prices by creating Debeer's mines. |
| 0:52.3 | De Beers would then be able to stabilize the market |
| 0:55.4 | by creating both the supply and the demand for diamonds worldwide. Tom Zolnar is a journalist |
| 1:03.0 | and professor who lives in Los Angeles. He wrote the book, The Heartless Stone, A Journey Through |
| 1:08.8 | the World of Diamonds, Deceit, and Desire. Here's Tom through the world of diamonds, deceit, and desire. |
| 1:12.7 | Here's Tom with the story of that journey. |
| 1:16.4 | My name is Tom Zolnar, and when I was 32 years old, I entered into what is a fairly common |
| 1:22.8 | rite of passage for a man in America. |
| 1:25.9 | I asked somebody to marry me. And I gave her a diamond engagement ring |
| 1:31.3 | because that's just what you were supposed to do. And I knew very little about diamonds. |
| 1:37.3 | I studied up on it as best I could, which wasn't very deep. And I learned that there's this tradition out there |
| 1:46.3 | that you're supposed to spend two months of your salary as a benchmark, sort of a sliding scale |
| 1:51.7 | for what's expected. And I wanted to do what was expected. So I figured out what I could afford, |
| 1:59.5 | and I bought a, her name is Anne, was Anne, I bought |
| 2:03.6 | her a diamond ring. |
| 2:04.6 | I say was because the engagement broke up and I was made the owner of a used diamond ring. |
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