You were listening to The How to Talk to Girls Podcast with me, Trip Kramer.

Hello and welcome back to another episode of The How to Talk to Girls Podcast.

I'm your host, Trip Kramer from TripAdvice.com.

We are talking today about attraction.

Some topic I've come back to again and again here on The How to Talk to Girls Podcast.

I want to go back. I wouldn't say to the basics because I wouldn't call this basic.

I would actually call this somewhat advanced because it's not very intuitive.

Attraction is not intuitive. It's counterintuitive, specifically talking about female attraction.

It feels like guys don't truly understand or it takes them a long time

to understand the real secrets behind female desire and attraction and how it all works.

And I say secrets because it kind of is a secret.

I feel like people don't talk about this.

I feel like a lot of girlfriends will give you the wrong advice.

They'll be giving advice based in some fairy tale world of what to do to attract a woman.

Women are typically not correct in how to attract themselves because they just don't know.

They're not really understanding how it works.

And I feel like a lot of guys don't understand how it works because guys think that women are attracted to the same things

that men are attracted to.

And I understand why you think that way. I used to think that way too.

We're not necessarily thinking that attraction works for men and women.

We're thinking of it on the same level because this is how we experience attraction.

And there's something human in that where whenever we experience something we feel other people are experiencing it.

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