Welcome to today's episode of The Minds and Mentor Podcast. I'm your host, Rob Dyle.

And today, we're going to talk about how to change your life simply by changing the

questions that you ask yourself in the words that you use. Now, I'm just going to dive

straight into it. One of the things that I noticed with a lot of people is that they tend

to ask themselves victim mindset questions. And if you ask yourself victim mindset questions,

guess what you're going to get? You're going to get victim answers. And do you know what

victim mindset questions usually start with? They usually start with one word. Why? Usually

if you're asking yourself a why question when it's about yourself, you're basically

going to ask yourself a question, it's going to put yourself into a victim start victim type

of mentality. Let me give you an example. Why am I still at the job that I hate? Okay, you're

still there. Now, number one, does it really matter why you're there? Because if you're

to job that you hate, does it, does it matter why you're still there? Or does what actually

matter is, is getting out of the job that you hate? Because if you ask yourself, why am

I still at this job when I hate it? That's a victim mindset question. Okay, let me give you

another example. Why do I always screw up relationships? That's another victim mindset type

question. Why does my mom always talk to me like that? Why doesn't she just finally treat

me like a grown up? Why? Why can't I ever find the right guy or girl? Why are men or women

such players? Why do they always cheat? Because here's the thing, whatever you ask the question,

whatever, whatever you ask, you will find the answer to. I always tell people in, in some

of my courses, I go deeper into this is you're going to find the answers because your brain

is like cosmic Google, whatever you ask it, it's going to find the answer to 100% every single

time. And it's the exact same way where if you say, why am, why am, why am, why can't I find a

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