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Shrink For The Shy Guy

The Secret To Staying Motivated In Building Confidence

Shrink For The Shy Guy

Dr. Aziz: Social Anxiety And Confidence Expert, Author and Coach

Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Careers, Business, Self-improvement, Education

4.8 β€’ 649 Ratings

πŸ—“οΈ 8 January 2024

⏱️ 26 minutes

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Summary

Join us in this enlightening episode where we delve into the art of maintaining momentum in 2024 to become your most confident self.

This journey isn't just a New Year's resolution, sparked by inspiration from a book or a fleeting moment of motivation.

It's about continuous growth and overcoming the natural ebb and flow of enthusiasm.

We explore the concept of "social fitness" and "emotional fitness" - key components in building a confident, authentic self, free from the constraints of inner criticism, social anxiety, self-doubt, and guilt. We discuss the fallacy of believing in a quick fix and emphasize the deeper, more fulfilling process of self-improvement.

This episode uncovers the pitfalls that hinder progress and practical strategies to maintain your drive. We address common negative self-perceptions and debunk the myth of genetic determinism in mental health, highlighting the role of environmental factors and personal perceptions in shaping our lives.

Hear inspiring insights and real-life examples, including expert interviews, that reinforce the message: "You are not what happened to you, you are what you choose to become."

Learn to break free from the old patterns and fuel your journey with positive, rewarding experiences. Our discussions extend to practical action steps, environmental adjustments, and mindset shifts essential for sustaining motivation. Whether you're battling social anxiety, seeking to improve your social skills, or aspiring to live your most authentic life, this episode offers a blend of science, personal transformation, and actionable advice to guide you on your path to unstoppable confidence. πŸ”₯

Key Takeaways:

=> Understand the process of building social and emotional fitness.

=> Learn to identify and overcome the common pitfalls that drain motivation.

=> Discover the importance of environment and perception in shaping your confidence. Gain insights into maintaining long-term momentum in personal growth. Actionable steps to make self-improvement an enjoyable and rewarding journey.

🌈 Who Should Listen: Anyone looking to build lasting confidence, overcome social anxiety, and embark on a fulfilling journey of self-discovery and personal growth. This episode is a beacon for those seeking practical advice and inspiration to become the best version of themselves.

πŸ”— Listen Now: Dive into the journey of building unstoppable confidence and discover the secret to staying motivated. This episode isn’t just a listen; it's a transformative experience!

 

Imagine starting 2024 with an unshakeable sense of self-confidence, free from the chains of social anxiety and self-doubt. It's not just a dream – it's entirely achievable. In today's episode, Dr. Aziz reveals the secret to maintaining momentum in your journey to becoming the most confident version of yourself.

The Myth of Instant Transformation

Dr. Aziz dives deep into the misconception that confidence is an instant change, sparked by a singular moment of inspiration. Instead, he compares it to a fitness routine – a form of mental and emotional conditioning that requires consistent effort and commitment.

Stand-out Quote: "The fulfillment that we feel from breaking free of our limitations is partly created by how long we were in the cage and how hard it was to get out."

Breaking Free from Old Patterns

The journey to confidence is riddled with pitfalls that can hinder progress. Dr. Aziz discusses the importance of recognizing and overcoming these obstacles. He emphasizes that real change isn't about conforming to societal expectations or genetic determinism but about personal growth and breaking free from past patterns.

Key Point: "You are not what happened to you, you are what you choose to become." – Carl Jung

The Path to Unstoppable Confidence

Dr. Aziz shares insights into how to keep moving forward, even when momentum fades. He illustrates this through the metaphor of a rocket launch, explaining that initial "pain fuel" can propel us forward, but sustainable change requires a different, more consistent energy source.

To maintain long-term momentum, it's crucial to find joy and fulfillment in the process, not just the outcome. This includes altering our environment and mindset to make social interactions less of a task and more of a rewarding experience.

Your Action Step

Identify what makes socializing enjoyable for you. Change your environment, challenge your self-limiting stories, and focus on making each interaction a positive experience. If you're seeking structured guidance, Dr. Aziz's 'Confidence University' offers step-by-step strategies to facilitate this transformation.

Closing Message of Hope

Remember, building confidence is a trainable skill. It's about staying in the process, embracing your journey, and acknowledging that every step, no matter how small, is a leap toward your ultimate goal of true self-confidence.

Inspiring Final Thought: "You're more than you think. Embrace the process, and dare to be who you are. Know, on a deep level, that you're awesome."



Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to Shrink for the Shy Guy.

0:05.0

This is the show for you if you are sick and tired of being held back by fear, self-doubt,

0:10.0

social anxiety, shyness, anything that's stopping you from you being you.

0:15.0

I'm going to share the most powerful tools and resources that I've been discovering over the last 15 years on my

0:21.9

journey to eradicate social anxiety and instill confidence, first in myself and then in every

0:28.5

single person that I meet on my journey. You're going to learn these tools and how to apply them

0:33.1

in your life now so that you can become the most free, powerful, bold, authentic version of you.

0:46.3

Welcome to today's episode of the show. Today, we're going to be talking about how you can stay

0:51.4

in momentum in 2024 to really become the most confident version of

0:56.0

you because this is not something that we just decide at the beginning of the year maybe you read

1:00.8

one of my books and you're like yeah I'm fired up I'm going to do this that's a very important step

1:05.6

we need that initial spark to get the fire going but we've all had something where the fire dwindles

1:12.9

after a couple of weeks, a couple of months, I mean, heck, a couple hours maybe, depending on the

1:17.4

thing, right? And social confidence, you becoming more free of social anxiety, more bold, more

1:23.6

expressive, more authentically you is absolutely a form of training. Definitely think of it

1:29.6

like fitness, social fitness, as well as a form of emotional fitness or the way you treat

1:35.1

yourself in your own mind. These are all types of conditioning. And like any conditioning, whether

1:39.8

it's your physical body to get in shape or learning an instrument or this, this being the

1:46.7

instrument of you and living your most authentic life, most expressive, most bold, most free self,

1:52.2

who's not under the tyranny of inner criticism, social anxiety, self-doubt and guilt.

1:57.4

That also is a process.

1:59.0

That's not going to happen from reading a book and then getting inspired and just staying

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