Coming up on marriage today with Jimmy and Karen.

Sometimes we would say is this year or not or my night?

Because when it was Karen's not different.

A lot of talking.

If there was any... A lot of talking.

If there was any sex that was at the end of a long road,

or is it going to be my night? Because my night was different than her night. Yay, my night because my night was different than her night. Yeah my night and Oh, For men, sex is a primary need and for women it's a secondary need. Now some women are more sexual than their husbands. About 30% of

women are more sexual than their husbands, but here's the point in this.

Rarely will our needs and nature's match.

Rarely in marriage, will you have matching libidos?

You will sometimes, maybe, maybe when you're younger.

But the older you get in marriage, what you realize is it's not the matching libido's or having

the same need at the same time, it's attitudes.

The best sex in marriage is one person serving the other.

And again, Hollywood fills our minds with such nonsense. That the happily ever after marriage is,

if you marry your soulmate, you always have the same desire at the same time and

everything's always fantastic. You know a lot of good sex is just you know one person

serving the other but the man the woman it is. It's just serving.

Another thing about a servant spirit is a servant spirit is the only spirit that can guarantee ultimate sexual fulfillment.

Nothing else can't.

You say chemistry.

Chemistry is going to come and go because there's going to be, you know, physically good times,

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