Coming up, I'm going to reveal the secret to doing what you really want in life. And then 92% of people would sacrifice perks for what I'll tell you next and then top colleges are they eliminating debt?

Helping you win in your work life so that you're winning in every other area of your life.

This is the Ken Coleman show.

So what is the secret to doing what you really want in life?

I mean anytime you hear these kind of things you go,

is it really a secret? I mean don't we all know and I think that's fair but I think this

might in fact categorize itself as a secret it is the secret to doing what you want in life and I think it's going to hit some of you the wrong way

So you're going to have to give me a little bit of time to unpack it here. Be selfish.

Ken, have you lost your mind? Have you gone to the dark side? What is it, what happened to the Ken Cole who was all about giving yourself away making the unique contribution

a purposeful contribution making making other people's lives better because of because of your

gifts what happened to that guy where'd he go he's still here what if being selfish is used

in a different context in other words not an evil vindictive or stingy way. We think

selfish is the little toddler who steals the other toddler's cookie or their toy.

But what if we're talking about being self-ish in a aware way.

Most of us do not have enough selfish actions in our life.

Here's what I mean by this.

What is selfish means self-aware? What if it means self-aware? What if it means self-aware? What if it means self-disciplined? That's what I want us to focus on. I want us for just this fun moment to think of being

selfish as thinking about myself in a way that I am growing in awareness. Am I aware of my weaknesses? Am I aware of my trauma? Am I aware of my bad habits?

Am I aware of my talent?

Am I aware of skills?

Am I aware?

Am I aware of what I want my future to be? What if selfishness was awareness and what if

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