The Secret Sex Lives of our Ancestors
Irish History Podcast
Fin Dwyer
4.7 • 1.8K Ratings
🗓️ 17 December 2025
⏱️ 45 minutes
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Summary
This episode includes discussion of sex and is not suitable for younger listeners.
Sex has always been a key part of Irish life. Yet given its intimate and private nature it often leaves little trace in the historical record. One rare exception comes from the Presbyterian Kirk Session, a church court that kept detailed accounts of behaviour it considered sinful. These records open a unique window into how people in eighteenth century Ireland navigated desire, shame, romance and rule breaking.
In this episode I am joined by Dr Leanne Calvert whose book Pious and Promiscuous: Life, Love and Family in Presbyterian Ulster uncovers the hidden sex lives of ordinary men and women in the 18th century. The conversation explores beliefs about sex, the reality of everyday relationships, courtship, affairs, pregnancy and the ways communities tried to control intimacy.
Get your copy of Leanne's book Pious and Promiscuous: Life, Love and Family in Presbyterian Ulster herehttps://shop.ria.ie/products/pious
Leanne's Blog: https://promiscuouspresbyterian.wordpress.com/
Work profile: https://pure.ul.ie/en/persons/leanne-calvert/
Sound by Kate Dunlea.
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| 0:00.0 | Sex is a major part of human life, but the secrecy and sometimes even taboo status around it |
| 0:10.4 | mean that it's often missing from our understanding of the past. Sex leaves a surprisingly scant |
| 0:17.3 | trace in the historical record, and this is particularly the case in Ireland. |
| 0:22.4 | However, one exception is the Irish Presbyterian Church. |
| 0:26.3 | Through its internal court system, known as the Kirk Sessions, |
| 0:30.0 | it kept detailed records of behaviour it considered sinful, |
| 0:34.3 | and these offer us a rare, even unique window into how our ancestors in the past navigated desire, sex, and these offer us a rare, even unique window into how our ancestors in the past |
| 0:39.4 | navigated desire, sex, shame, romance and all that goes with it. Now, in this episode, I'm |
| 0:46.0 | joined by the historian, Leanne Calvert, whose book Pious and Priscuous Uncovers the Hidden Sex Lives |
| 0:52.3 | of ordinary men and women preserved in the records of the Presbyterian Church. |
| 0:57.3 | She shares her findings and I think you're going to be pretty surprised about how modern many of these cases even though they take place in the 18th century feel. |
| 1:07.7 | Sex is unsurprisingly part of the human condition and controversy around it is as old as time. |
| 1:18.6 | Hello and welcome to the Irish History podcast. My name is Finn DeWar. |
| 1:23.3 | Now before we kick off, I will say this episode contains discussions around sex and sexual |
| 1:28.2 | activity. So, if there's little ears around, you might want to stick on the headphones. |
| 1:32.9 | Now, my guest, as I mentioned, is Vianne Calvert. Jan is an assistant professor of history in the |
| 1:38.2 | University of Limerick, and her work is absolutely fascinating. Our conversation focuses around |
| 1:44.1 | her recent book, P and Primiscus |
| 1:46.4 | and if you find our discussion and the cases we talk about interesting, her book is a really |
| 1:51.8 | accessible deep dive into the broader topic. I have it linked below and if you're still looking |
| 1:57.3 | for that last Christmas present for the lover of history in your family, |
| 2:01.3 | order today, they won't be disappointed. |
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