This is not about judging Shia LeBuff. It's about looking in the mirror. Fame didn't destroy the guy.

Isolation did. Fame magnified it, but isolation destroyed it. The lack of accountability ruined him.

Absence of consistent and real brotherhood ruined him. And those are the same forces that are working on ordinary guys like you and me,

quietly, subtly, privately, in isolation. Gentlemen, today I want to talk with you about a man

that most of you know. Actually, you might not know him personally, but because you've watched him rise,

you've watched him fall, you've watched him rise again and fall again publicly, very, very

publicly. And I'm talking about Shia LeBuff. You've probably seen the headlines. You've seen

the viral clips of him losing his mind. You've probably

watched his podcast, which quite honestly is probably my favorite podcast of him with or on the

real ones. And it's pretty sad if I'm being honest. It's a story of substance abuse, violence,

public meltdowns, arrests, even lawsuits, apologies, relapses. It's really, really difficult

to watch. And I know it's easy for us to sit on the sidelines and think, well, this is a guy

who has the world at his fingertips. And he certainly does. And he's very talented and very gifted and

worked hard to achieve it. And he's got the world at his fingertips. And yet he continues to fall

apart. And I want to tie this back into what I see so many men doing in their own lives

and even me to a degree. Because I'm a little hesitant to share this with you because I don't want

you to tune out and believe that I'm just getting into celebrity gossip. Let's, let's not go there. This is not about Hollywood.

This is not about what happens when a man has talent and opportunity in the world at

his fingertips and self-awareness of who he is.

But no consistent system.

He doesn't have, he doesn't have brothers. He doesn't have a brotherhood.

He doesn't have accountability. He doesn't have a system in place that's strong enough to

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