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We Met At Acme

The Relationship Recession ft. Amy Chan

We Met At Acme

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Education, Relationships, Society & Culture, Self-improvement

4.22.5K Ratings

🗓️ 12 April 2026

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Summary

Relationship expert, founder of The Breakup Bootcamp, and author Amy Chan is back on the podcast for the third time! We discuss why a majority of relationships fail at the 18 month mark, the biggest first date mistake, the #1 trait that predicts relationship success, the best age to meet someone, and more! 


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0:00.0

The following podcast is a dear media production.

0:17.8

Hey guys, welcome back to We met at Acme.

0:20.0

I am so excited for today's episode with Amy. She is a three-time

0:25.2

guest because we love everything that she has to say. And I think you're really going to enjoy her too.

0:30.6

Just as a reminder, if you haven't written a review yet and you are enjoying the pod, please do so

0:35.8

so that we can continue to exist and bring you

0:38.1

good episodes and great guests. And if you haven't subscribed to our substack, it's we met at Acme

0:43.7

or we met at Baby. There are articles up once a week. And I would love for you to be part of the

0:49.5

substack community. All of our episodes are also on YouTube. So check us out there. Subscribe. And thank you,

0:56.5

as always, for listening. And I can't wait to hear your thoughts on the episode. Enjoy.

1:00.5

Hey, guys, welcome back to Weemadatatatmi. I'm so excited to be here with Amy Chan, the founder of

1:04.8

Breakup Boot Camp and the author of Unsingle, her new book. And this is a third timer on the We Minutadactivity podcast,

1:11.8

which is very rare and it only happens with people I really love. I'm so happy you're here.

1:18.1

I don't know if we were doing this last time I had you on. So we're going to start with the same

1:21.8

question we've been starting with, which is what is your favorite romantic gesture for someone to do for you?

1:29.0

This is really silly.

1:31.0

My boyfriend every morning fills up a jug of water and puts it on my office desk because I always forget to drink water.

1:37.8

And it's like not a grand gesture, but it is so thoughtful that I just find it really loving.

2:02.5

I actually don't think that's silly at all. And it's been said before. Okay. Something similar, like filling up my water bottle type energy. Yeah. It's different because when I, my first time being on this podcast, I think it was like six years ago or seven, I used to think it's like flowers, a Michelin Star restaurant. And now I'm like, no, that's not.

2:08.6

Right. It's the understated little things that we love. And if I remember correctly, you're an Aquarius.

2:17.6

I am. Oh my gosh, Lindsay. I know. I have a crazy memory for Zodiac signs. And the last time you're on the pod, you hadn't met your now boyfriend.

2:22.1

I don't know if I, maybe you had just started dating. It was like early days.

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