Hello, welcome to or welcome back to Trent to Care.

If you're new here, my name is Ashley and I upload every single Monday and I'm now uploading

on YouTube.

So if you like to have a visual, if you like to see who's talking to you, I'm on YouTube

now and I'm not doing anything.

I'm just sitting and talking to the camera, but I know some people like to see who's

talking to them. So if you like a visual, it's there, but you can still listen to me on Spotify

and Apple or wherever you listen. You can also follow me on Instagram and TikTok if you want to

keep up with me. Just throwing that out there. That's in the show notes too. But we're just going to

jump right into today's episode.

And in today's episode, I want to talk about the reality of healing. I feel like when it comes

to the process of healing, there is a huge difference in how people treat you and how they

react to what you've gone through when you're healing versus when you're healed. Usually when you're going

through a hard time and you're struggling really bad, you're met with a lot of judgment and

negativity and just misunderstanding. But when you show that you're doing better and that you're healed,

people are so much different towards you and they praise you and they're like,

you're so courageous, you're so brave, you're so strong, you're such a warrior.

And it's like, why am I being praised for something now when you just criticized me a couple

months ago?

When I was going through it, I was a problem.

But now that I've overcome it, I'm being

praised for it. Like we see this all the time when it comes to celebrities, especially Selena

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