The Real Reason Your Relationship Feels “Stale” And the Easy Fix Therapists Swear By | WOI Panel (Fan Fav)

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4.7 • 657 Ratings

🗓️ 8 August 2025

⏱️ 40 minutes

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This is a Fan Fav episode. Choosing the right person to date can be a high-stress situation for most of us. The choice is even more difficult when you begin to think about all of your previous choices and wonder if you can even trust your judgment anymore. Have you ever wondered how is it that you seem to attract not one, not two, but every wrong person possible? Does the madness ever end? This episode is dedicated to a few basic strategies and ideas worth learning about and practicing so that you can stop attracting the wrong person to your life and start picking the right partner for you. Spirit, the relationship therapist, and Matthew Hussey are united in wisdom for a masterclass on not just how to date better, but also how to make better choices and get out of the wrong situations even faster. Original air date: 2-22-22 SHOW NOTES: Are you compatible | Spirit reveals truth about aligning with your partner [0:25] Dating Rules | Tips for dating potential life partners [5:18] Solving Relationship Problems | The healthy way to solve relationship problems [11:44] Ask Hard Questions | Knowing the truth is better than wondering [19:25] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out. SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ Macy’s: Upgrade your glam at ⁠https://macys.com⁠ FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:30.3	Hello podcast fans. I'm Bradley Simpson. When I think about the stories that stayed with me,
0:34.9	one that immediately comes to mind, is Ratatooie. A talented route who just wants to cook, and honestly, I was glued to my screen straight away. And now I'm hooked on FX's The Bear on Disney Plus. I love everything about it. I love the styling, the tension, the drama. It's the best thing I've watched in ages. Only the greatest stories stay with you for a lifetime. And honestly, it's true. So,
0:54.6	what will be your next great story on Disney Plus? Copyright 2025 Disney and its related entities.
0:59.3	18 plus. Subscription required. We're just simply re-enacting the same patterns over and over from our
1:06.2	past. Do I actually want this person? Is this the right person for a relationship?
1:13.4	And all of a sudden, if we're not careful and we don't know what that is, we go,
1:17.1	eh, this relationship has lost its fire.
1:29.6	And it's important too.
1:35.2	And the reason for that is because oftentimes people are afraid as chemistry changes,
1:41.5	they're afraid and they mistake the chemistry changing for them falling out of love.
1:42.1	Okay.
1:45.6	So what happens is when we first have initial chemistry,
1:51.8	we call it NRE, which stands for new relationship energy. When we have new relationship energy with somebody that we first start dating, it's everything is incredible. Everything is amazing and
1:57.7	intense. And our bodies literally respond to that chemistry. We have more dopamine
2:03.9	flowing in our bodies, more adrenaline flowing. It's literally a chemical process that allows us to feel
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