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The Mindvalley Podcast

The Real Reason You Aren't Finding True Love - Katherine Woodward Thomas

The Mindvalley Podcast

Mindvalley

Education, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement, Mental Health

4.51.5K Ratings

🗓️ 23 July 2021

⏱️ 40 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, Katherine Woodward Thomas shares the relationship advice she used to change her frustrating love life and attract the love of her life. She also shares her secret to clearing the blocks in your love life, plus the three questions she constantly asked herself to prepare for her future relationship. It doesn’t matter if you are going through relationship problems or are stuck in the attracting-the-right-partner phase, Katherine has an answer for you.      Katherine Woodward Thomas is the New York Times Bestselling Author of Conscious Uncoupling: 5 Steps to Living Happily Even After and Calling in “The One:” 7 Weeks to Attract the Love of Your Life. In addition, she is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and teacher to thousands in her in-person and virtual learning communities. Before becoming a bestselling author, Katherine decided to evolve beyond her painful patterns in love consciously when Katherine was in her early forties. As a result, she miraculously manifested a beautiful marriage and became a mother. For many years, she and her husband were happy together. A decade later, however, they realized that they’d grown apart and, after much discussion, decided to end their marriage. Yet, they’d both been raised by parents who’d had messy, hostile breakups and knew how damaging divorce could be for kids. Katherine also knew how traumatic a bad breakup could be from the many heart-wrenching experiences she’d had in the past. This motivated her to create the Conscious Uncoupling 5-step process that would inspire the kind and conscious breakup of Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin just a few years later.   Listen out for: - The story of how Katherine changed her love life. - How Katherine created conscious uncoupling.   Bonus:                                                                          - Learn to heal your heart, reclaim your power, and live happily ever after in this FREE Mindvalley masterclass with Katherine Woodward Thomas 👉 https://go.mindvalley.com/CU            - Subscribe to Mindvalley Membership to discover 30+ Mindvalley Quests, watch our podcast sessions live, interact with the guests, connect with the world’s best teachers and find your community 👉 https://go.mindvalley.com/NOW      Like this episode? Subscribe to our podcast on iTunes, Spotify, or your favorite podcasting app. Share this with your friends on Instagram or Twitter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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For years, I'd been giving things away and devaluing myself and not believing in my own creativity.

0:07.1

And when I finally took responsibility, I saw it was actually all me.

0:11.9

I'd given away my power to him constantly, and I discovered in that moment that we only

0:17.1

resent people to the extent that we give our power away to them.

0:20.3

I am Mission Latiani, founder of Mind Valley, the School for Human Transformation.

0:24.6

You're listening to the Mind Valley podcast where we'll be bringing you the greatest

0:28.0

teachers and thought leaders on the planet to discuss the world's most powerful ideas

0:32.6

in personal growth for my, body, spirit, and work.

0:38.0

So about 25 years ago, I was a graduate student. I was getting my master's degree in clinical

0:45.6

psychology. And I was incredibly shy. I was shy in the way where it made it hard to look people

0:54.3

directly in the eyes. And at the time, I was kind of a starving student. I was living hand-to-mouse.

1:02.5

I had had a modestly successful career as a singer, and I think the world's successful.

1:07.2

I'm using it in the most generous term of the word. I had founded or co-founded a non-profit

1:14.0

organization that was doing work with the homeless, but I was still struggling. I was still trying

1:18.8

to find myself really. And in the midst of this, I started to feel intuitively that somewhere in

1:27.1

the future that I was going to be speaking to thousands of people. Now, this didn't make any sense

1:35.3

to me at all. The gap was so severe, it was actually confused by that kind of premonition.

1:43.8

So I called my mom, and I said, mom, I think I'm going to be speaking to thousands of people.

1:52.4

And this is when I learned the lesson that if life is giving you the seeds of a vision and they're

1:57.5

emerging in the depths of your being, you probably don't want to call your family and tell them about

2:03.3

it. Because my mom said to me, well, what the hell are you going to be talking about?

2:12.9

Because we're from New York. And I didn't know how to answer that question. I certainly had no

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