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Welcome to the female dating strategy, the meanest female only podcast.

On the internet, I'm your host, Roe.

And this is Savannah.

And today we have a much requested guest by the name of Natalie Liu.

Hi.

Natalie, I just remember coming across your blog baggage reclaim.

Probably, I'm trying to think like 10 years ago.

I know that you were like just one of the very first people that claimed, you know, your own space in, uh, the sex and dating sphere and specifically

talking about creating boundaries, starting to parse out and navigate the more complex parts

of emotional, emotional engagement with the opposite sex. So I think I just kind of wanted to start off by asking

what really just inspired you to create this blog? I know you've probably already talked about this

and you have, have like a little blurb on your website, but for people who are not familiar

and may not have followed your blog this entire time, can you describe that for us? Yeah, absolutely.

I have been blogging for just over 17 years, so since June 2004.

And I started off with a personal blog, which was called Tired of Men and other things that Drive a 20-something around the Twist.

And it was relatable.

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