The Purity Culture Fundie Dating Manual MORE EXTREME Than I Kissed Dating Goodbye
Leaving Eden Podcast
Leaving Eden LLC
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🗓️ 14 February 2026
⏱️ 54 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, we review "Dating With a Purpose," which is an IFB purity culture dating manual targeted at teens and young adults in the IFB and at Hyles-Anderson college. It was written by Jack Schaap, who later went to prison for sexually abusing a child who was a student at the high school where he was chaplain.
We also discuss Dr. James Dobson of Focus on the Family's appearance in the Epstein files, and why abusers love purity culture so much.
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| 0:00.0 | No rolling river of time. |
| 0:07.0 | You've healed me in too many days. |
| 0:13.0 | No regrets, no confusion, there'll be no pollution. i'm so thankful i've decided to change my ways |
| 0:30.3 | welcome into the leaving eden podcast it is valentine's day happy valentine's day uh and because there is so much romance in the air, |
| 0:39.6 | today, Sadie and I are going to deliver you some practical dating and marriage advice from a book. |
| 0:47.9 | It must be true because it's in a book. This book, which was written by a convicted pedophile. And human trafficker. |
| 0:55.2 | I wish that was a joke. |
| 0:56.4 | Let's go. |
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| 1:22.4 | I want to start out not by talking about this book, but by asking Sadie, how surprised were you to see James |
| 1:29.3 | Dobson's name come up in the Epstein files? |
| 1:32.4 | More surprised than I should have been. |
| 1:34.1 | That's on me. |
| 1:34.6 | The late Dr. James Dobson, who was the leader, the founder of Focus on the Family, the |
| 1:40.7 | right-wing Christian nationalist political and religious think tank. He was mentioned |
| 1:46.2 | in the Epstein files. One of Jeffrey Epstein's victims was angry at her father, and she was texting |
| 1:53.9 | Epstein about it. And he sent her an article from James Dobson's blog about forgiving your father. Yeah, like why you shouldn't be resentful |
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