Hi, my name is Ruby, and I'm Dr. Jennifer Finlason-Fife's assistant, and you're listening to the Dr Finlason-5

podcast Archive.

The podcast episode you'll be listening to today is entitled The Psychology of Men's Sexuality,

originally produced and published by Zach Rodinizer of The Psychology of Podcast.

Welcome and we hope you enjoy this episode.

Sometimes people will say,

sometimes people will say, well, it's a success because I haven't looked at porn for a year,

but there's no intimacy in the marriage.

They really aren't at peace with themselves.

They don't, I mean, I'm not sure that that really is a measure of success because there's more of a kind of I'm just going to put my sexuality in a box and just white knuckle as opposed to a more mature relationship to their embodiment, their inherent sexuality,

their inherent sexuality, more ability to be real and open and knowable in their relationship.

And I'm not sure that all approaches really understand what I think would be the goal that actually gives people true peace of mind.

Welcome to the Psychology of Podcast, where in each episode we examine the psychology of a specific aspect

of human life and culture. I'm your host Zach Rodinizer, registered psychologist and director

of the Lethbridge Institute of Family Therapy, where we treat mental health concerns from a family systems approach, improving your life by improving your interpersonal relationships.

My guest for today's episode is Dr. Jennifer Finlason Fife, who is a relationship and sexuality coach

as well as a licensed clinical professional counselor in the state of Illinois.

She has a PhD in counseling psychology and has taught college level human sexuality courses.

In this episode, we talk about male sexuality and the misunderstandings that men and women have about

male sexuality. We discuss the challenges around expressing one

sexuality in a way that is true to that person, but might conflict with the expectations of their

partner. We discuss performance anxiety and erectile dysfunction among many other topics that are often too sensitive for men or women have.

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