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Assalamu alaykum. Today I want to speak about the daughter-in-law, the negatives at times.

And please listen to this because people say you don't talk about it. That's not true. I do.

At times you have a marriage. As I said previously, people are happy. Everyone's excited.

The marriage happens and here comes the beautiful daughter-in-law into the home.

She comes, if she were to come, Subhanallah, with a bad mouth, screaming yelling, shouting,

swearing, abusive, and just being a big boss trying to change the entire home and house

and trying to take the child away from the parents. Because now that's my husband.

And that's it. My beloved child, my dear sister. Subhanallah. As much as that's your husband,

those are his parents. Try to be respectful. Try to understand them. Let's have a beautiful

relationship. Try to be a person who fits into the system. And yes, if adjustment is required,

you can make an adjustment and so can he and so can a few of the others. But a little adjustment

here and there, nobody minds, especially when it is appreciated and when it's not demanded with a big

fuss that's made because of that, let's try to be more respectful. Imagine someone comes into

the home and next thing, everyone starts fighting because of that person. That's not good enough.

When we enter a home, we should be complementing what's happening in that home in terms of good.

We should be fitting in in a nice way as best as possible. And yes, you are entitled to your

separate quarters. That's something that everyone knows. But even if you have your separate quarters,

you cannot deny your husband, his relationship with his parents. Sometimes I do know parents overdo it.

In fact, I will speak about a problem that we've been facing of late where some of the sons are

so close to their mothers that even during moments where she's not dressed appropriately,

etc. They would still go in and sit with her. And recently, I heard of someone who actually

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