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The Man Enough Podcast

The Power of Self-Love: Kevin Hines on Turning Brain Pain into Purpose

The Man Enough Podcast

Wayfarer Studios LLC

Education, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Mental Health

4.81.1K Ratings

🗓️ 26 August 2024

⏱️ 75 minutes

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Summary

TW: This episode discusses suicide and depression In this uplifting episode, we sit down with Kevin Hines, an award-winning speaker and mental health advocate, to explore resilience, hope, and the journey to self-love. At the age of 19, Kevin survived a suicide attempt that forever changed his life. He shares his path from the miracle that saved him that day to now dedicating himself to helping others overcome "brain pain" and find their way to healing. Throughout the conversation, Kevin shares profound insights on the power of empathy, the importance of positive self-talk, and the critical need to reach out for help when it’s needed most. They touch on the complexities of mental health, the impact of childhood trauma, and the transformative effect of forgiveness. He also discusses his advocacy work, including his role in the installation of suicide prevention nets at the Golden Gate Bridge. This is a powerful reminder that no matter how difficult life gets, there is always hope, and that each life holds immense value. Whether you’re seeking inspiration or practical advice on mental health, this conversation is for anyone striving to live a fuller, more compassionate life with the ability to find light in the darkest moments. Don't miss this chance to hear from a man who has turned his pain into a mission to save lives. If you are in Crisis, or struggling with thoughts of suicide please call or text 988 or text CNQR to 741-741 TIMECODES: (01:47) Introducing Kevin Hines (5:11) Kevin Hines' background, challenges he faced growing up, and his life-changing experience at the Golden Gate Bridge. (12:19) Current state of boys/men and skewed perceptions of suicide (17:45) Moving from self-hate to self-love (24:35) Jamey reflects on his own mother and experiences (28:18) Reframing definitions, perceptions and approach to suicide and people that need help (57:26) Gender trends and differences related to suicide, normalizing struggle for all (1:05:22) The initiative to get suicide prevention nets installed at the Golden Gate Bridge (1:09:51) Exercise to reduce negative self-talk and depression (1:12:15) What does it mean to be “man enough”? QUOTES: "Suicide is not the answer to the problem. It is the problem. You're beautiful just as you are, and you are enough." - Kevin (1:10:50) "We are all human who want the same things. We want to experience joy and love. We want to be seen…We want to build some legacy, to be valued, to make a mark in some way." - Jamey (24:57) "The thoughts are…It's almost like you're on this radio station and you can't change the channel...And it's constant and it's all the time and it is inescapable in many ways…But the solution is not for you to go. It’s to actually ask for help." - Liz (16:48) "Without self-love we cannot give of ourselves to any other human being." - Kevin (14:15) KEVIN HINES LINKS: Books: The Art of Being Broken, How Storytelling Saves Lives; The Dimly Lit Star - https://kevinhinesstory.com/shop/ Film: The Net - https://TheNetMovie.com https://www.instagram.com/kevinhinesstory/ https://x.com/KevinHinesStory http://YouTube.com/KevinHines http://YouTube.com/HinesightsPodcast SUPPORT MAN ENOUGH https://manenough.com/newsletter https://manenough.com/books https://boyswillbehuman.com FOLLOW THE HOSTS Liz Plank https://instagram.com/feministabulous https://tiktok.com/@lizplank https://facebook.com/feministabulous https://twitter.com/feministabulous http://www.elizabethplank.com/ Jamey Heath https://instagram.com/jamey_heath_ https://tiktok.com/@jameyheath https://twitter.com/jamey_heath_ https://facebook.com/jameyjaz http://www.jameyheath.com/ Executive Producers: Justin Baldoni, Jamey Heath, Tarah Malhotra-Feinberg Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey everyone, before we jump in, I just want to warn you that today's episode contains content and

0:05.2

stories that may be alarming to some listeners. So please check the show notes for more detailed descriptions.

0:11.1

Thanks so much. Coming up on Man enough.

0:14.0

19 years of age, I left off the Golden Gate Bridge in an attempt to take my life.

0:19.9

I never thought I would jump off a bridge.

0:22.3

I grew up in a beautiful home to understand someone who could potentially

0:27.4

have these thoughts you need to recognize that their emotional and brain pain, their lethal emotional pain, is so overwhelming

0:36.5

that all they want is for that pain to end. They don't want to die.

0:43.0

They believe they have to.

0:45.2

When you can empathize with that, you can reach them.

0:48.3

When I see your struggle and what your life has been

0:51.0

and imagine the amount of hearts that you've touched and

0:54.3

healed and in this very moment mine's I have one way done with this I can call my I

0:59.6

can call my mom because I haven't talked to her much because I'm holding it.

1:05.0

Tell her, tell her how you feel, tell her that you love her.

1:07.0

Being man enough, what does that mean?

1:12.0

It's really manly to mess up, admit you're wrong, and then grow.

1:16.0

I couldn't accept that I was evil. So maybe I'm broken. But those broken things could be corrected.

1:21.0

Intimacy between a father and a son is me just wanting to like put my head in your lap.

1:26.0

I love you son.

1:28.0

You haven't called me benevolent sexist, but my experience is women are better.

1:32.0

Even if it's a positive, it's still not equality.

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