Welcome to the Jill on Money Show. It is Sunday, January 1st. Happy New Year one and all. Okay, obviously I'm pre-taping this because, you know, we're not doing this on Sunday. But we are so happy that we are closing the chapter on 2022. I think it was a turbulent year for so many and the markets were

crazy. I guess the thankful part of it is that like hopefully that we've had that horrible year and

we can put it behind us and we have a different year ahead and there's always something different

different. That's a cool thing about this job that I have. I get to report on different things. And hopefully you are looking forward as well. So in order to move forward, we are

encouraging you to look backwards. And that is why this weekend we are re-airing our interview

with Dan Pink, because his book is called The Power of Regret, how looking backward moves us forward.

So let's look back a little bit. Let's look forward. Let's talk a little bit about, you know,

this time of year is such a great time to think about forgiving people, asking for forgiveness,

and how this plays into the idea of regrets. Here is the second part of our

interview with Dan Pink. I was on the board of an organization called StoryCorps, which is,

you know, audio stories. And the founder, Dave Isay, used to recount this very. He would say that,

like, basically, when you have these conversations with your

loved ones, especially at the end of their lives, there are essentially four things that they

actually say. Okay, so it's obvious like, I love you, right? That's easy. Thank you. And then the other two,

forgive me. And the other one is I forgive you.

Oh, interesting.

So how do you think forgiveness plays into regrets?

It's a very, very interesting question.

And I think it plays in in two ways.

First of all, you had mentioned, Jill, that you tend to regret, your bigger regrets are hurting other people.

And that's the thing

that bugs you a little bit more than say a regret of you know not asking

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