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🗓️ 23 September 2025
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Elizabeth fell deeply in love in 1975, but only time would reveal he was a criminal narcissist. Now that her parents have passed she feels free to share the truth about her marriage.
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, Ben. My name is Elizabeth. I felt deeply in love with a man in college and we married. |
| 0:07.1 | But surprise, he wasn't who he presented himself to be. I kept all the chaos, antics, and abuse to myself. |
| 0:15.7 | Now that my parents have passed, I feel free to share my secret. |
| 0:20.8 | I was married to a criminal narcissist for seven years. |
| 0:26.0 | Today, the secret room presents the pomegranate man. |
| 0:43.3 | He leaves and he's gone for days. |
| 0:44.1 | For days. I don't see how this is tolerable. |
| 0:46.3 | How do you run a law practice? |
| 0:48.1 | Like, this is what I'm beginning to think. |
| 0:50.0 | You know, and he stored all these wads of money in a cash box under the bed. |
| 0:55.0 | And I'm like, this is so insane. |
| 1:09.5 | I'm being, let me take you back to the fall of 1975. When college campuses across America |
| 1:15.1 | were buzzing with the promise of new beginnings leading into the nation's bicentennial, |
| 1:19.8 | my guest, Elizabeth, meets a man on campus who seems deep, charming, and damaged, but driven. |
| 1:25.7 | She is captivated, and she sees potential. And like so many of us, |
| 1:30.2 | she does not see the danger coming until it is too late. Over the next hour, you'll hear the |
| 1:36.2 | true story of how love can be a weapon in the hands of a narcissist, and how red flags are often |
| 1:41.3 | mistaken for passion, mystery, or depth. Now that Elizabeth's parents have |
| 1:45.4 | passed, she feels free to tell her secret what it was really like to be married to a criminal |
| 1:50.4 | narcissist. Let's get started. Hi Elizabeth and welcome to the secret room. Thanks, Ben. Glad |
| 1:59.3 | to be here. Great to have you. Thanks. Yeah. |
| 2:04.1 | Your secret is a hard one to share. How long have you kept it secret? Oh, gosh, since |
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