The Pleasure Gap with Our CEO Amy Friedlander

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.2 • 6.7K Ratings

🗓️ 10 September 2024

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

Hey, pleasure seekers! I'm super excited about today's episode. I always encourage you to discuss sex with your friends, so I've invited Amy Friedlander, my CEO and brilliant friend, to join this conversation. We're both fed up with the pleasure gap, a topic The New York Times highlighted in a recent article, "The Orgasm Gap Isn’t Going Away for Straight Women." Today, Amy and I are actively seeking ways to bridge this gap. We're sharing our sexual histories, addressing the pitfalls of faking orgasms, and talking about negative sex-pectations set by porn and extreme media portrayals. We're talking about methods to prioritize pleasure and close the orgasm gap. Tune in to be part of this change and close the gap with us! You deserve a richer, more fulfilling sex life. We're sharing our sexual histories, addressing the pitfalls of faking orgasms, and talking about negative sex-pectations set by porn and extreme media portrayals. Together, we're talking about methods to prioritize pleasure and close the orgasm gap. Tune in to be part of this change and close the gap with us! You deserve a richer, more fulfilling sex life. In this episode, you'll learn: Why the Orgasm Gap Persists: We'll unpack how inadequate sex education continues to widen this divide. The Dangers of Faking It: Discover why being authentic in expressing your sexual needs is essential for true pleasure. The Role of Media: We'll debunk harmful myths and foster a healthier dialogue around sex. Also, don't miss our discussions on whether sleeping apart can enhance your sex life and how Kegel trainers can lead to more intense orgasms. Tune into these articles: Does Sleeping Apart Help Your Sex Life? Kegel Trainers for Bigger, Badder Orgasms Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/SWE 💖 SMARTSX ANNOUNCEMENT 💖 Today, September 10th, 2024, we're thrilled to launch SmartSx, our membership platform where pleasure meets education. Join our community to transform your intimate life, whether you're deepening connections or exploring new kinks. SmartSx is your gateway to all things sexy and insightful. Embrace your pleasure potential with an open heart and mind. As a member, you'll embark on a journey to discover your unique desire style and boost your Sex IQ. You’ll also gain tools for a healthier sex life through engaging discussions, expert guests, and direct interactions with me. Each month will feature themes based on my 12 Universal Truths About Sex and Pleasure, starting with 'Sexual Connection is a Skill Set.' CLICK HERE TO JOIN

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0:00.0	You're listening to Sex With Emily. I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex.
0:12.0	So excited for today's episode. I'm talking to my friend
0:16.8	Amy Friedlander, she's also a powerhouse, she's the interim CEO of Sex with Emily, and I've known her since my college days.
0:26.1	She's a badass lawyer, strategic genius behind top tier companies like Liquid Death and
0:31.1	Uber. But most importantly, I am always telling you,
0:34.9	encouraging you to have conversations with your friends about sex and this is
0:39.7	how it's done. We do that today. We get into some things, a lot of things in this episode, but really I'm angry. I'm kind of angry about something and I wanted Amy to be here to talk to me about it. So the New York Times came out with an article a few weeks ago, the
0:53.6	orgasm gap isn't going away for straight women.
0:56.7	Duh. We've known this, right? We've known this, right? We've been talking about the
1:01.3	fact that women are not having orgasms at the same rate as men but now it's widening
1:05.4	which is so frustrating
1:08.0	like what what are we gonna do about this you know I didn't need this article to
1:12.4	tell me what you guys have been telling me for a long time but
1:14.8	why is the gap not going anywhere and what can we do about it?
1:18.6	We're gonna get the bottom of it in today's episode we delve into all
1:21.8	things pleasure gap and we also
1:23.2	share the stories of my first time and Amy's first time having sex, the dangers
1:28.3	of faking an orgasm, the normalization of extreme sex in the media like what gums like do you know that when we
1:35.3	see all these extreme images it's really impacting everyone really but young
1:39.4	people they're getting choked at like age of 12 like what is going on. There's also some good
1:44.5	tips in this episode that you are going to love. Also I'm bearing the lead
1:50.4	because today I launched my new membership.
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