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Amy & T.J.

The Plastic Bag Theory:  Why Dating That “Easy Going” Guy Is Complicated

Amy & T.J.

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4.43.2K Ratings

🗓️ 4 April 2026

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

There’s a new relationship theory taking over social media  and it warns about the allure of dating the “plastic bag man.”  You know, the guy who goes with the flow, drifting like a plastic bag in the wind.  At first, he seems like the perfect, low maintenance man who rarely argues and never overreacts.  But relationship experts warn, what’s disguised as agreeability may actually lead to avoidance and resentment.  

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Thank you. Hey there, everybody. It is Saturday, April 4th, and there is a new theory out there that might explain a lot for women who are confused because, yes, we all say we want to be with someone easygoing, but according to the plastic bag theory, we actually don't. And with that,

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everyone, welcome to Amy and T.J. Who said that's what women want? What'd you say? They said

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someone easygoing. I think we all think a lot of times as women that we just want a guy to just go with the flow, easy going, non-confrontational.

1:15.7

Does that sound good?

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I mean, as we sit here now, does that, like women listening right now, does that, it sounds pleasant, does it not?

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It sounds peaceful.

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In theory, yes.

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And I think they say especially women maybe who have come out of a previous relationship with something that felt toxic or exhausting or combative.

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And so they just want a guy who's like, yes, dear.

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