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Cat & Nat Unfiltered

The Person You Married Is Not the Person You Will Divorce

Cat & Nat Unfiltered

Cat & Nat

Relationships, Funny, Kids & Family, Life, Comedy, Parenting, Society & Culture, Momtruths, Women's Podcast

4.92.7K Ratings

🗓️ 3 February 2026

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

Divorce is an act of courage. It takes bravery to choose a different life, especially when kids are involved. Women aren’t leaving because they’re giving up — they’re leaving because they believe they deserve happiness and want to model healthy relationships for their children. It's a complicated decision. No one prepares you for this. And the person you married is not the person you divorce!


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0:00.0

I find it so fascinating.

0:01.7

Yeah, but like, that's why I think, like, when a woman makes the decision to do it,

0:06.9

I can't, like, the bravery of that, knowing that it could be really complicated.

0:13.4

It could be really expensive.

0:14.6

You could change your lifestyle forever.

0:16.2

It could be hard on your kids.

0:17.6

I wonder, though, if they know that until they're in it.

0:20.4

And then they're like, holy fuck. Like a lot of women make the decision before they tell them in now.

0:26.9

They do. They do. They slowly.

0:31.5

Natalie, what do I do? What do I do? I hope it's giddy, giddy.

0:40.1

Hi.

0:42.4

I wanted to tell you a funny story.

0:45.5

So I just spent four nights in Palm Springs.

0:46.4

And you know, they call it it.

0:48.2

It's for gays and grays.

0:49.8

And it really is.

0:54.0

Which is really kind of a nice place for like a woman our age to be around, you know?

0:56.4

Like older people so you feel young yeah and then gays who are just fun and nice and want to put me in that's a general but like they

1:02.7

they're that's fun and then there's lots of golfers yeah so I guess there was like some pGA tour thing

1:09.0

and so there was a lot of people that worked on the tour there, like anywhere from like, you know, like younger guys. Some did the flooring. Some did the like, whatever. So there was lots of like people there as well. And this one place every night's a party. How many of you have kids that go on the trip? Just I'm just like rounding that for all of you. Well, everybody has kids except for one of us. And the lift of going, oh, but they have one. Everyone has. Oh, no. So weird. Everyone has one except for two of you. And two have two. Oh, and two. So nobody has three, which I was like sitting at tables. I can't believe none of us have three. Three is such a normal number. I mean, they're like, no, two's normal.

1:45.3

One is less normal.

1:46.5

When you guys plan a girl trip, do you have to do it around the divorce schedule? Yes. And how do they make sure they have it on the same weekend? Or they planned that a long time ago. Yeah. And if things change, you're screwed. Yes. And one person was unable to come.

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