married for 25 years.

Out drinking with his wife.

No one really mentions that much.

They were drinking.

Boating and alcohol,

especially at nighttime, do not mix, you know?

And even if, say, he was totally clear,

and he didn't do this,

he could still get arrested for manslaughter for going out on a boat

intoxicated. And again, people are going to kill me for saying this. I don't know specifically he was

intoxicated. Easy to find out. Go to the restaurant. How many drinks did he have? Let's see his check.

Right. What was he drinking? And if he had four or five or six drinks then i would say uh he's probably intoxicated your thoughts yeah oh yeah of course anytime you have a history of domestic violence you all know how it is this to me tell you're like when you have a history of domestic, did you guys live all that?

But yeah, so yeah, I totally get that. And as soon as you hear that, I know it jades you a little bit, but still, you know, you pretty much know what kind of person you're dealing with. And you can assume some of the background for it. You may be wrong. You may, you know, you may be close. but when that comes up, you know, that's not good.

That's not good. background for it. You may be wrong. You may, you know, you may be close. But when you, when that comes up,

you know, that's not good. That's not good. So he has a history of not being nice to her,

in other words. 100%. And then, you know, a classic, um, body language. Look, I, I can read body

language. I just don't know what I'm seeing. I can't describe it

like you do. Like you because, oh, that's him that, you know, because obviously we on the NYPD,

we learn on the job training. I wish I did have someone like you to train me early in my NYPD

career. It's all, it's all academic. What you guys see is this, all I'm doing is, and other people have

done is put words to that and say, okay, when they, when they do that and look to the right,

most of the time that's a shoulder, you know, single shoulder shrug and the chin goes right.

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