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that's right this is the Patrick Madrid show. No heat, no judgment, I guess. I have something

entirely different now. I want to share with you. I'm going through a big stack of emails.

And I appreciate every time you send me an email and I read them and I appreciate them.

And I answer

them on the air, by the way. It would be impossible to try to do that, you know, each individual

email. So I do the best I can and I appreciate your indulgence on that. This is from Anonymous,

and this person, this woman is listening on the Relevant Radio app.

I have been listening to you for about two years now.

I'm a single woman in my mid-20s.

In my work, I met a slightly older Mormon guy who shares the same hobbies and career interests as I do.

He told me that he was single with no children and we became good friends, and I secretly developed feelings for him. On his last day of work, he took me out on a date. We didn't hug or kiss.

Since he left, we've only texted a few times just to catch up. I almost asked him to be my date at my

college friend's wedding reception, but last week I found out he was married.

Cyrus.

This guy's playing games.

The last week, she says, I found out he was married. I stumbled on his wife's Pinterest and found

out he also has at least one child. Though we never had any physical contact, I did have feelings for him.

I feel so heartbroken and ashamed. I haven't messaged him since I found out what should I do?

Well, honestly, don't do anything more with this guy. Loser. So, I mean, that's cruel of him to have done that, to have given you the impression that he

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