I used to be judgmental, I used to be critical, I used to guilt the people I loved, I used

to make them think that they were wrong, and I was right.

I had to be right because if I was wrong, that exposed some fears and vulnerabilities,

and I didn't want anyone to see those things, so I made sure that the focus stayed on them

and that I made them feel bad, and those are all emotionally abusive behaviors that

I am helping other people heal from now, I mean it took a long time for me to heal from

those things, but that's what I do over at HealedBeing.com.

If this is you and you want to change that behavior, check out the program that's changing

lives and relationships, HealedBeing.com.

Welcome to the Overwhelmed Brain, where you'll learn to make decisions that are right for

you so that you can create the life you want now.

Hello, this is Paul Coliani and I'm here to help you learn to deal with difficult people

and tackle life's challenges without compromising who you are.

The show consists of my personal opinions and is meant for informational purposes only,

always seek a professional for your mental health and well-being.

And yes, I brought up judgment at the very beginning of the show talking about my HealedBeing

program, the issue I had, or one of the many issues I had when I was married, and before

that in every single relationship I was in, was that I needed for the person I cared about

to conform to my standards.

It's a very vulnerable thing for me to say, but I've talked about it a lot last ten years,

it's still something I don't like to admit, and it is something that it took a long time

to heal from.

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