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Chasing Excellence

The Passion-Obsession Paradox: The Hidden Cost of Chasing Optimum Health

Chasing Excellence

Ben Bergeron & Patrick Cummings

Health, Education, Mindset, Crossfit, Wellness, Self-improvement, Holistic Health, Health & Fitness, Fitness

4.82.2K Ratings

🗓️ 14 February 2025

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Summary

The 3 Big Questions We're Answering: 

1. How can we effectively communicate our health and lifestyle choices to family members who may not understand or agree with our decisions? 

2. What is the difference between passion, compliance, and obsession in our pursuit of health and wellness, and how can we maintain a balanced approach? 

3. How can we navigate social situations and family dynamics while staying true to our values and prioritizing our health and happiness? 

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🤙 ABOUT US 

📍 Ben Bergeron is a best-selling author, coach to 7 CrossFit Games champions, and founder of CompTrain. Find him on Instagram. 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

We believe health is the foundation that unlocks freedom.

0:07.2

The freedom to live fully, to be an asset and not a burden, and to chase what truly matters.

0:13.5

Through daily practices and proven frameworks, we are here to help you build deep health,

0:19.3

find lasting peace, and live with your heart on fire.

0:24.3

Welcome to the chase. Thank you so much for joining us. How are you, Ben?

0:29.7

Doing great. Really good, Pat. We've got this episode. We have a question from a listener.

0:35.4

His name is Tyler, and this is what he would love us to talk through.

0:40.0

As my wife and I strive to make decisions that align with our values and family, we've been

0:44.3

facing increased tension and friction from certain family members who disagree with our choices.

0:49.0

During a recent family vacation, my wife and I were treated with disdain and labeled as antisocial

0:53.9

because we opted to explore, explore nature and play outside treated with disdain and labeled as antisocial because we opted to

0:54.7

explore, explore nature and play outside with our son during the day, instead of engaging in

0:59.4

small talk indoors with extended family. Similarly, while others stayed up late drinking and

1:03.9

playing cards, we chose to stay sober and go to bed early to prioritize activities like breathwork

1:08.3

and working out before starting another day of parenting

1:10.8

a toddler. While cutting these toxic individuals out of our lives may seem like a simple solution,

1:15.5

it is unfortunately not feasible due to the criticism coming from my wife's parents and sisters.

1:20.0

Therefore, I believe part of the solution lies in better explaining why we choose to live our lives

1:23.7

the way we do. My first question, how can we effectively manage these difficult conversations

1:27.4

to explain our lifestyle choices to individuals who lead drastically different lives

1:31.3

and consequently have drastically different perspectives?

1:34.4

Additionally, I would appreciate any suggestions for alternative solutions we should consider.

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