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The Longest Shortest Time

The Parents' Guide to Affairs with Esther Perel

The Longest Shortest Time

Hillary Frank | Realm

Kids & Family, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Parenting

4.74.2K Ratings

🗓️ 6 December 2017

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

Couples therapist Esther Perel talks about why people cheat, even when kids are in the picture. Or, sometimes, *because* kids are in the picture. Plus, some practical tools for handling an affair -- and preventing one from happening in the first place. … Join LST+ for community and access to You Know What, another show in the Longest Shortest universe! Follow us on Instagram Website: longestshortesttime.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey guys, we know that there were times when you were growing up that you pulled little

0:14.9

tricks on your parents to get what you wanted, right?

0:18.4

Maybe you're a teenager and you are doing this as we speak.

0:22.0

We know we've got some teenage listeners out there.

0:24.5

Or maybe you're a parent and you figured out how your kids are pulling fast ones on you.

0:30.2

Here at the Longest Shortest Time, we're working on a book called Weird Parenting Winds

0:34.6

and there's going to be a whole chapter on kids manipulating their own parents.

0:38.9

It's going to be one of the most fun chapters in fact, but we need to hear from you.

0:43.9

Yes you, right now.

0:46.0

Go to longachortistime.com and click Participate.

0:49.6

Then just fill out the Weird Parenting Winds form.

0:52.6

It's super easy.

0:54.0

And thanks.

0:57.0

After you have a baby, it can feel sometimes like you've fallen into a hole.

1:01.9

A big old parent hole.

1:04.2

You're isolated, overwhelmed, constantly on alert, just trying to keep this kid alive.

1:10.0

If you're lucky, you've got another grown up in the hole with you, your partner.

1:15.8

And if so, little by little, you and your partner can help lift each other out of the hole.

1:21.6

You take turns changing diapers, waking up with the kid.

1:24.8

You talk about all the hard stuff, how gross it is when you get baby poop on your clothes,

1:29.6

how you don't really feel like yourself anymore, how you're afraid you might never want to

1:34.6

have sex again, or maybe you're feeling turned on but by someone else.

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