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The Parent’s Role in a Child’s Gender Development

Ask Pastor John

Desiring God

John Piper, Unknown, 163859, Pastor, Ask, Theology, Desiring God, Religion & Spirituality/christianity, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Questions

4.83.8K Ratings

🗓️ 11 April 2013

⏱️ 5 minutes

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Summary

God calls parents to love their children enough to shape them into future men and women. But how much influence should a parent have?

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In our culture today, it appears that children are increasingly given the free choice to

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develop as men or women.

0:10.8

There's an assumption that personal manhood or womanhood is a choice that will necessarily

0:15.2

emerge in the child and in their personal choices.

0:19.2

Pastor John, in a young girl developing towards biblical womanhood or in a young boy developing

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towards biblical manhood, how much of this development should be influenced by godly parents?

0:32.2

All of it.

0:34.9

Children, obey your parents in everything, in everything, for this pleases the Lord,

0:45.0

Colossians 3.20, which if you just flip that around and ask, what does that imply for

0:51.0

parents?

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If the Bible says to our children, obey your parents in everything, okay, now parents,

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what does that imply for you?

0:57.9

That implies you better know your Bible, you better know culture enough so that you can

1:05.3

give in everything counsel and guidance to these children so that they can fulfill without

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sinning the biblical mandate to obey you in everything.

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Deuteronomy 11.

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I shall teach all these words of mine to your children, talking to them when you're

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sitting in your house and walking by the way and lying down and rising up, right them

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on your doorposts and put them on your gates.

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That is a description of pervasive, word-saturated guidance and inspiration and encouragement for

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our children.

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No thought of laissez-faire, let them grow up and discover what's right and wrong for

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