All right, guys, welcome back to the man talk show.

Connor Beaton here.

And today, we're going to be talking about the one thing that destroys almost every

single man's life, how this happens, and what to do about it.

All right.

What's the one thing that destroys almost every single man's life? do about it. All right. What's the one thing that destroys? Almost every

single man's life. It destroyed my life. It caused me to hit rock bottom. I've seen it wreck a lot of

men's relationships and their financial situations, their health, their mental well-being.

That one thing is lacking impulse control. So many men struggle to have any

type of impulse control. Maybe you might have it in some areas of your life, like maybe with your

health, with eating, like you've got that rained in, but in other areas of your life, you're like,

yeah, I have zero impulse control. I can't wake up at the time I want to wake up. Or you lack the impulse control to tell the truth or you lack the impulse control to not text that woman that you know is not good for you. And so, you know, you're back in her DMs or you're texting her on a Friday night when you're like,

God, this is just the worst dynamic.

I know this is not good for me.

So impulse control is one of those things that for the majority of men is causing them to spiral.

It's causing them to feel like they cannot lead themselves and their lives effectively.

I'm just going to give you a quick Aristotle quote because I think it really exemplifies why this is so important. He said, I count him

braver who overcomes his desires than him who conquers his enemies. For the hardest victory is

over the self. The hardest victory is over the self.

And as men, we are very externalized, right? We, we're much more external oftentimes than women.

We look out at the world. We're trying to solve problems out there. We're trying to get,

you know, validation from out there. We're trying to build things out there.

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