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The Daily Stoic

The One Thing In Your Life You Can Control | The Obstacle Is The Way

The Daily Stoic

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Education, Daily Stoic, Society & Culture, Stoic, Stoicism, Self-improvement, Business, Stoic Philosophy, Philosophy, Ryan Holiday

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🗓️ 30 June 2025

⏱️ 8 minutes

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Summary

Our lives are unpredictable. We are at the mercy of so many forces. 


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The Inner Citadel by Pierre Hadot

The Obstacle Is the Way by Ryan Holiday


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0:00.0

Welcome to the Daily Stoic Podcast, where each day we bring you a stoic-inspired meditation

0:11.7

designed to help you find strength and insight and wisdom into everyday life.

0:18.8

Each one of these episodes is based on the 2,000-year-old philosophy that has guided some of

0:24.2

history's greatest men and women to help you learn from them, to follow in their example,

0:33.0

and to start your day off with a little dose of courage and discipline and justice and wisdom.

0:40.3

For more, visitdailystoic.com.

0:43.0

The one thing in your life you can control.

1:00.1

Our lives are unpredictable.

1:02.3

We are at the mercy of so many forces.

1:05.7

The weather, the economy, your boss's mood, your teenager's mood,

1:09.8

whether the contractor finishes the job in time,

1:13.0

whether that idiot in front of you drives right. People can mess up our day, they can mess up our

1:18.5

margins, they can imperil our safety. But it has always been thus. Marcus Aurelius opens book

1:25.8

two of meditations with a meditation on precisely this,

1:29.5

preparing himself in the morning for what he's likely to encounter. He didn't control other people

1:34.7

or external events, he understood, but he did control whether he allowed them to change who he was,

1:40.8

whether he allowed them to implicate him in ugliness, as he put it.

1:45.6

He controlled, in short, how he responded.

1:48.9

It's not much, but it's plenty.

1:51.2

And the paradox is that the more we control ourselves, the more we end up shaping the world around us.

1:56.9

That's why when we focus on what's in our control on what's up to us, we find that it's more than enough.

2:01.6

Not only does it become a kind of hidden superpower, but also a secret source of peace.

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