The One Question That Ends All Relationship Confusion

Sex With Emily

Sexuality, Health & Fitness

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🗓️ 9 December 2025

⏱️ 59 minutes

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0:00.0	And I find this really helpful on a macro level and a micro level. So what did my year feel like?
0:07.7	What do I want the next five years to feel like? What are my relationships feeling like? But also on a
0:11.9	day-to-day basis for the choices that I'm making, is this a choice that 85-year-old me is going to be
0:18.5	proud of, is going to be excited about.
0:28.2	You're listening to Sex with Emily. I'm Dr. Emily, here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex. Today, I'm sitting down with Liz Moody, best-selling
0:33.4	author, podcast host, and wellness expert to talk about something we don't discuss
0:38.2	enough.
0:39.0	How the way we live our entire lives shows up in our sex lives.
0:42.1	We're covering how to create your ideal sex bill of rights, why thinking about your death
0:46.3	can actually improve your orgasms, and what Liz calls micro-intimacy.
0:51.0	Those tiny moments that keep your relationship alive when you're too busy for date
0:55.0	night. This conversation is about getting real with yourself, figuring out what you actually
0:59.5	want, not what you think you're supposed to want, and learning that it's never too late to
1:03.6	completely transform your sex life. If you've been faking it, settling, or just feeling
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1:23.3	stimulation and those rumbly, mind-blowing clitter vibes, Jeju is known for. Here's what I love.
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1:45.9	it solo or with a partner, it has this feel like it's made just for you. And honestly, it's kind of a
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