Welcome to the To the To Love Honor and Vacuum podcast. I'm Sheila Ray Gregoer from to love

honor and vacuum.com where we like to talk about how to make marriage a passionate adventure and

not just a giant to-do list. And speaking of passionate adventures adventures we are in the middle of our

orgasm month that's right pretty much all month I'm talking about

orgasms which is just kind of odd and this is a really weird job I have

but there you go and right now I am at my daughter

Katie's house where we are filming all of the videos for the men's version of

the orgasm of course so yes that's awkward as well this is just what I get myself into and

because of that we're not going to do a YouTube version of this podcast this week

because well Katie already has a lot of videos to edit and we want to launch on October 26th.

So what I want to do today is some really cool stuff happened in the comments over the last few days.

And I want to pick up on something that I said last week in the podcast and then go over people's reactions to it and just elaborate a bit because I think some really interesting stuff is coming out and we're finally getting to the heart of the matter.

So last week I shared an analogy of what it's like when women never orgasm.

I shared the idea of going to a restaurant and she gets served and he doesn't. I put it up on

Facebook and on Twitter and I included it in a post this week which of course I will link to in the

podcast description for this podcast and the post that goes along with it because I

always do link to those so you can check that out but I want to read to that

analogy and then we'll look at what some of the

commenters said so here we go. Imagine if we were taught that what women really

need to feel loved is to go out to eat at a restaurant at least once a week

where you talk and enjoy a delicious meal. Let's picture a couple,

Tracy and Dan, who try to live by this. One Tuesday night, Tracy and Dan head to the restaurant.

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