The One About Bill [274]
Flying Free
Natalie Hoffman
5.0 • 1.1K Ratings
🗓️ 7 May 2024
⏱️ 13 minutes
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Summary
BILL! My friend, Bill, wrote a little comment on my site that I wanted to share with you all. It wasn’t a nice comment, but honestly, that’s what makes this episode fun! Let’s take a look at what our little gaslighting friend said and examine more closely where he got it wrong.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, this is Natalie Hoffman of Flying Free Now.com, and you're listening to the |
| 0:09.2 | Flying Free Podcast, a support resource for Women of faith, looking for hope and healing from hidden |
| 0:16.4 | emotional and spiritual abuse. Welcome to episode 274 of the Flying Free Podcast. |
| 0:27.0 | Today I want to read an email that I sent to my mailing list a few weeks ago. |
| 0:33.0 | And by the way, if you would like to be on my mailing list, |
| 0:36.0 | just go to FlyingFree Now.com |
| 0:39.0 | and sign up at the top. |
| 0:41.0 | But I wanted to share this email on my podcast as well because it goes |
| 0:45.2 | along with the last few episodes where we have focused on abusers, the native |
| 0:51.9 | language of the abuser and how to interpret and answer it. |
| 0:57.0 | Maybe not necessarily to answer the abuser because, you know, what good does that do? |
| 1:02.0 | But more to answer it in our own minds so that we can |
| 1:05.2 | unhook from the power of it and it can't have any power over us it will still |
| 1:11.7 | sting possibly but we're able to recover from it much more quickly |
| 1:15.9 | because it doesn't, we don't have this hook inside of us. Okay, so here's the email I've sent to my email list. An abusive man made a comment on my blog last year. |
| 1:27.0 | No, I did not allow it to be published there because my blog is a safe zone for survivors. |
| 1:33.5 | But I get these kind of comments and emails regularly, |
| 1:36.5 | and after I read the first sentence, |
| 1:38.6 | my rude part just rolls my eyes and deletes it. |
| 1:41.8 | Ain't nobody got time for that. |
| 1:44.3 | But just as I was about to delete this one, |
| 1:46.7 | I had a thought. |
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