The On-Off Relationship That Drained Me
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
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🗓️ 4 April 2026
⏱️ 13 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | There's no one like you, and there never will be. |
| 0:03.0 | From the producer of Bohemian Rhapsody. |
| 0:06.4 | There are many legends, but there is only one. |
| 0:12.0 | Michael, in IMAX and Cinema's Wednesday, April 22. |
| 0:15.1 | Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne, and this is my video coaching newsletter, |
| 0:19.7 | and the topic of today's newsletter is going to be |
| 0:21.9 | the on-off relationship that drained me so this particular email is from a viewer he was dating |
| 0:30.9 | an insecure woman and she would get mad at him and it looks like she used breakups is like a weapon |
| 0:37.0 | to get him to comply with her wishes. |
| 0:39.9 | So it's like anytime things didn't go away, she'd threaten in the relationship, she'd |
| 0:44.5 | get pissed off at them, she'd end it, she'd block them on all social media, and then a few days |
| 0:50.4 | later, a week or two later she'd be back in touch. They'd start hanging out, having |
| 0:54.6 | fun and hook it up again. She'd apologize. And then something else would set her off. And then |
| 1:00.1 | she would do the same thing all over again. And after five rounds of this, he's like finally |
| 1:05.2 | said, okay, I had enough of this. So, and on top of that, he's blocked everywhere once again. |
| 1:12.6 | So you can call this an attachment issue or whatever you want, but this is a chick that's |
| 1:16.6 | kind of messed up. |
| 1:17.6 | She uses breakups as a weapon. |
| 1:19.6 | And at the end of the day, statistically, if you or somebody you are in a relationship with is |
| 1:26.6 | constantly threatening to end it as a way to get you to comply or modify your behavior, it's almost 100% chance certainty that it's just not going to work out because somebody is going to get tired of the making up and the breaking up. |
| 1:40.5 | So if you find yourself in a pattern like this or dating a girl that just goes off about something, |
| 1:45.8 | blocks you everywhere, disappears for a few days or a week or two and comes back, you're pretty |
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