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Hi, I'm Caroline Stambry and I am Divor's Not Debt. I'm a former Bravo TV star and now former wife.

Fresh off the back of my divorce, I'm bringing real stories, real life, real talk on all things that aren't said between each other, society, the sheets and everything in the middle.

And lucky me, you'll be joining me for the journey, so buckle up.

Welcome back to Divorced Not Dead.

So today's episode is one that's been sort of mulling over in my mind quite a lot.

And the more I get into these episodes, the more I'm really enjoying like listening to you all

and like getting all your

DMs and you know it seems to be like a really really hot topic so I named this one

myself the motherfuckers or motherfucker and they are really the things that fuck mothers.

And I don't mean literally I mean that fuck ourselves the pressure we put on ourselves

the things that we have to live up to, guilt, all of these things, fuck us in so many different ways.

Marriage, children, you know, children are of course a blessing and a great blessing and I get asked this all the time by

single girls this is I guess for you guys you know I'm running out of time what if I

don't have kids and all this kind of stuff and you know I hear it from 20

something-year-old girls well first of all that is no rush and let me explain and I love my little

darlings like I really love them like my whole life is dedicated them but that's there it is my whole life is also dedicated to them so like

and I don't mean it in a way of like other mothers like you know if you look at me I'm still

living I completely live but my life is dedicated to like their schedules

finding people that can you know help me bring them up in the right way because I have to

have a life and I refuse not to have a life. I have other girlfriends of

mine who have children and they won't even go out for a lunch. They won't go for

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