Welcome to Darren Daly on demand, your most trusted resource to help you become better every day.

Here's your success mentor, Darren Hardy.

Good morning. Hey, what do people think of you?

I know the answer to that. I know exactly what other people think of you. Trust me on this one.

Are you ready for the answer?

Drum roll please.

They are not thinking of you at all.

People are always only thinking about themselves.

They can't help it.

We are a self-ish-focused species.

And frankly, it makes sense sense here's the definition of

selfish devoted to or caring only for oneself concerned primarily with one

own interest benefits and welfare as the most dominant species to survive to

this point we've had to be this way.

That's exactly how we got here.

Thus, the only time people even consider you

or talk about you is when you are affecting them

and their ego or their pride or make them fearful

or envious or jealous or whatever, which means it's still about them, not you.

In the insane productivity program, I explain the 80, 40, 65 rule.

You see, when we are 18 years old, we are in constant pain wondering what people think about us.

When you finally get to 40, you finally stop caring what people think about you.

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