What's up Bachelor Happy Hour listeners. I'm Becca Kufren and I'm Michelle Young and we are so looking forward to being back with you this week for a double whammy to talk about both of the episodes this week on the Bachelorette and of course the ongoing journeys of our girls Gabby and Rachel and in this time for fantasy sweet people.

There's so much that has happened during Gabby and Rachel's fantasy sweet week that they actually had to split the show up into two different episodes.

Yeah, I have to say I think this was the most wild fantasy sweet week we've seen a lot went down and we are going to get into all of that but before we do that I mean like Michelle you remember in your season this is like truly the week that changed everything.

Like it was your first time you are you are alone with your guys and I mean we're really seeing both women's relationships shift with these men. I mean I feel like these men are just dropping like flies.

There's a lot there's definitely a lot to dissect with all of that but in the meantime first let's do a little check in it's been a week since we've seen each other and and have caught up so what's going on with you.

Hey, I mean I'm wrapping things up in Minnesota we have the state fair so I'm going to be getting there this week I know I'm already preparing to have a stomach ache for a few days because of how much food I eat just pregame with septal bismol absolutely.

Yep, I'm sponsored some tons in your bag you'll be set.

That's a good brand partner for this month. But then just you know kind of tying up all my loose ends before I had to lay for the next few months.

I know I'm so excited for you to be out here I'm also very jealous about you going to the state fair because unless you're a Minnesota local native like you no one can truly understand like the

whole that the state fair has on minnesota it's like the biggest thing of the year truly like the most random cool crazy unique culinary experience so please let me live I curiously through you and take photos of the everything

like taste and rank all the new foods and everything but also like even not even outside of minnesota though it's like the number I don't know if it's the number one or the number to state fair in the entire US it's the place to be yeah it really is

so much for today man so much life's life's the same nothing new with me we're still working on the house Thomas is still with the mistress working on that house we finally have

closet space which is incredible but yeah we've just been it's been super hot here in California if you like I've never heard people talk about the weather so much being here so when you move out like get ready for a heat wave

leave all of you leave all of your cold weather clothes behind you will not need them that's not an issue but like how hot are we talking I mean like

San Diego gets hot obviously it's other California but like because we're so coastal you always get this high sprees it's like never ungodly hot but like it's been like in the 90s these past couple days this weekend like this past weekend was like pushing a hundred

so get ready and when you come to California you're going to be more in the valley which is even hotter so just be warned okay but Michelle I really want to talk to you about fantasy suites because obviously we're in the midst of that with gabby and Rachel but

it was not so long ago that you were in their shoes and you had your own week of fantasy suites and talk a little bit to our listeners about like kind of where your mindset was both like when you were a contestant on that season going into fantasy suites versus when you were the lead because it's like pretty pretty different.

Yeah exactly it is it is so different and it's just such an odd experience because when you're going in as a contestant you're very aware that you are data or that the lead is dating several people so you know that you're not the only person that's there

and so call it an open relationship you know in the real world whatever it's you know labeled as right you are aware that there are others that are involved and so I think what's really weird to go into it is that just because you know that

and that you chose experience doesn't always make it easier now does it make you kind of put you in a place where you like you kind of have to just accept it if you're going to continue absolutely because that's part of the deal but like as a contestant side you know my fantasy suite like going into it my fantasy suite was first and for me that was kind of it's it's just tricky because it's like you have your night and you get to a certain point

and then you're like sitting and like tuddling your thumbs for however many days you know go on and it's just like there's time to overthink but then when you're the last person then you know that everybody else who you know had that fantasy night before you like you I don't know like I it's just it's such a weird and odd situation as a contestant when you so when you're contestant during fantasy suite week

where like where was your date where did you line up were you the first middle I was the first you were the first yeah our date was like what do we do we did like this really weird like norwegian spots were like spreading butter over each other's bodies like creed

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