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Eckhart Tolle: Essential Teachings

The Most Difficult People In Your Life Are Your Greatest Teachers

Eckhart Tolle: Essential Teachings

Oprah

Society & Culture

4.64.3K Ratings

🗓️ 3 August 2023

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, Eckhart says no one person can make us happy because the demand is not only too much, but also an impossible task. He explains falling in love may feel wonderful. The honeymoon starts and everything is beautiful. Until the day comes when we discover our partner has issues or even worse: a very active pain body. He says we might panic, thinking I made a terrible mistake! With humor, Eckhart explains what’s really happening is the relationship no longer masks the real problem: our underlying anxiety and disconnection. He says as long as we look for gratification outside ourselves in people, places and things or what he calls the horizontal dimension, we will always feel like something is missing. He shares that the most difficult people in our lives can become our greatest teachers because they push us to awaken – to step into the vertical or transcendent dimension.

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0:00.0

The most difficult people in your life are your greatest teachers.

0:05.0

In this episode, Eckhart says no one person can make us happy because the demand is not

0:09.2

only too much, but also an impossible task.

0:12.5

He explains, falling in love, may feel wonderful.

0:16.3

The honeymoon starts and everything is beautiful until the day comes when we discover our partner

0:21.8

has issues or even worse, a very active pain body.

0:26.4

He says, we might panic thinking, I made a terrible mistake.

0:30.9

With his humor, Eckhart explains, what's really happening is the relationship no longer

0:35.5

masks the real problem, our underlying anxiety and disconnection.

0:40.9

He says, as long as we look for gratification outside ourselves in people, places and things

0:45.9

or what he calls a horizontal dimension, we will always feel like something is missing.

0:51.5

He shares that the most difficult people in our lives can become our greatest teachers

0:55.7

because they push us to awaken, to step into the vertical or transcendent dimension.

1:03.5

You will be challenged by the things of the world and that could be other people.

1:09.7

The most difficult people in your life are your teachers when you suddenly realize the

1:14.7

world is here to challenge me so that I awaken to the deeper dimension of who I am, then

1:22.5

you can recognize it, especially the difficult people in your life and the biggest challenges

1:28.9

which could be of other kinds too, there can be physical challenges, the body, there can

1:35.6

be financial challenges, challenges of relationships, challenges of great loss, upheavals on a personal

1:46.0

level, upheavals on a collective level that you are part of.

1:50.9

We had this pandemic that affected millions and millions of people in different ways,

1:56.8

some more severely than others, but challenged everybody and they are more challenges coming

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