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The mood-boosting power of crying | Kathy Mendias

TED Health

TED

Shoshana Ungerleider, Ted Shoshana, Ted Talks Health, Health & Fitness, How To Be Healthier, Medicine, Fitness

4.01.5K Ratings

🗓️ 15 February 2022

⏱️ 12 minutes

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Summary

Here's a talk about tears -- and why crying isn't something to be afraid or ashamed of. Exploring the science behind the mood-boosting power of crying, childbirth and lactation educator Kathy Mendias shows how tears can enhance your physical and mental well-being and deepen your relationship to yourself and others.



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0:00.0

You're listening to TED Health. I'm your host, Dr. Shoshana Ungerleiter. Have you ever wondered why we cry?

0:08.6

Turns out this is a uniquely human phenomenon. Crying is a natural response to a range of emotions,

0:14.4

from grief and sadness to extreme happiness, but there's evidence that it's also good for our health.

0:22.1

In her 2020,

0:28.3

TED at PMI Talk, certified childbirth and lactation educator Kathy Mendeas, shares why she believes crying is a gift and encourages us to change the way our culture views tears.

0:34.5

According to the American Academy of Ophthalmology, we create 15 to 30 gallons of tears a year.

0:41.1

I am what you would call a high-volume producer.

0:44.2

Now, even though we do create less tears as we age, I figure by the time I'm 80, I will have filled up 40 average-sized bathtubs.

0:53.2

Now, crying in my early years?

0:55.2

Not something I would brag about.

0:57.1

When I was five, I thought it was a good idea to practice writing my name on the side of the house.

1:02.2

Outside the house.

1:03.7

Mama didn't agree with me much.

1:05.3

She handed me a toothbrush and said,

1:07.3

Here, scrub.

1:08.6

So I did.

1:09.9

I'd sit at the dining room table for what seemed like an eternity.

1:13.1

I didn't want to eat my vegetables. You probably know the feeling. I'd miss all my favorite shows

1:18.8

and cry like crazy. Crying was always associated with something bad. Fortunately, I grew up.

1:26.5

I stopped riding on the walls, started eating my vegetables,

1:29.4

and I entered the wonderful world of motherhood. And let me tell you, crying takes on a whole new

1:34.4

meaning. I was nine months pregnant, and I was sitting on the couch, looking at the front door

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