The Moment Louise Nearly Broke Her Five Year Sobriety
He Said, She Said
Staying Relevant Productions
4.3 • 888 Ratings
🗓️ 31 March 2026
⏱️ 53 minutes
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Summary
Louise and Ryan are back from Antigua and they have some BIG news…👀 After two years, Louise finally found her missing engagement ring. Which raises the question… is marriage finally on the cards?
They also debrief the trip, from both Leo and Big Mike’s testing moments to Louise almost breaking her sobriety, there’s a lot to unpack. They talk about managing their IVF journey while away, and how it shifted their whole approach to the holiday. It also opens up a conversation about how holidays look different now they’re parents, which leads to an unexpected debate… should pubs be allowed to ban kids?
And with marriage back in the mix, they get into prenups. Practical or unromantic? And is it something they’d actually consider…they get into a little role play to figure out what they really think!
00:00 We finally found our engagement ring!
09:10 Looking back on our Antigua trip
13:05 How holidays change when you have a child
17:00 Top tips for travelling with a child
20:25 Should children be allowed in pubs?
24:15 The moment Louise nearly broke her sobriety
34:50 How IVF reshaped our holiday experience
38:55 Letting go of beauty standards on holiday
42:00 Would we ever get a prenup?
47:15 Hypothetical cheating role-play
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| 0:00.0 | We are back. |
| 0:02.3 | We're back from Antica and we have some news. |
| 0:05.3 | Do it, go on. |
| 0:06.3 | Guys, I found my engagement ring. |
| 0:10.1 | What the hell? |
| 0:12.5 | Like, honestly, what the hell thanks to you. |
| 0:15.1 | I'm getting a little clap there. |
| 0:16.8 | Guys, does this mean we need to get married? |
| 0:19.1 | Yes. |
| 0:19.7 | Fuck! |
| 0:23.6 | Do you know what's mental? It's been missing for two years? |
| 0:25.6 | It's been missing for over two years. |
| 0:27.6 | I never ever thought I'd get this back. |
| 0:30.6 | Tell me exactly what happened because I wasn't in the last. |
| 0:32.6 | I don't know what happened. |
| 0:34.6 | That's what's so strange. |
| 0:36.6 | What tomfoolery has happened here. Okay, so strange what tom fooleries happened here okay so essentially when |
| 0:39.1 | this got lost i we were juggling a lot as a family yeah it was just after i'd had my colon |
| 0:46.4 | removed i had a lot of my plate i was dealing with pooing in a bag attached to my stomach and i just |
| 0:51.9 | employed someone new and we'd not been able to work together for a few months. |
| 0:56.2 | There was just a lot of change. |
| 0:57.4 | And I don't actually, I've never really spoken to you about how it made you feel when I lost this. |
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