Listen, honey, hi, hi everybody.

I hope everybody is safe out there. I take a gas

saying that because it's hard to find the words nowadays with so many uncertainties and so much turmoil out there, but most of all I hope that everybody's safe and everybody has has a pocket of a peace of mind inside of wherever their mind is right now where they're thinking.

I'm here with my guest who I've been so excited to talk to for such a long time because

he is the only source that I can count on when it comes to how men think, how we should think about

the way men think, how men should relate to us women when it comes to relationships and that is Mr. Connor beaten of

man talks. Hi Connor. Hi, thank you so much for having me. Yes of course

Connor you have an amazing podcast called man talks you also have men's groups that meet regularly that you connect with on the internet and you have

amazing wise posts that not only influence men out there but myself and I've sent some to my fiance.

So first off I want to ask how are you doing during these times?

Yeah, I'm over well. I'm over all I'm doing pretty well. I think you know they are challenging times and we've definitely my wife is a marriage and family therapist and so we've just seen a huge influx of people that are looking for support and

guidance and trying to make sense of of the time so but outside of that doing

well overall. Yeah yeah well I've been really excited to have you on because honestly before I would say

Before Amad Aubrey before Brianna Taylor George Floyd, I would have had you on to talk about how men think and what are the basic one two threes that we should think about when it comes to relationships. But now because and thankfully because of the events that have happened

I actually want to plug into even more than just the way men are thinking but just how men are thinking, but just how men and their makeup and their self-awareness

plays into now the responsibilities that we have to have you know and obviously you

you know you're not to speak for all men but what have you been noticing when it

comes to the the men that you work with the men's groups that you've been in contact with,

what have you been noticing the atmosphere when it comes to men, I especially think as

like as leaders and as you know fighters and men that are a little bit more you would think

naturally charged and and I don't know a little bit more forceful about situations like this and I'm just making super stereotypes but like what do you think men are are thinking right now?

Yeah, I mean there's a so I run a online community that's free for guys

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